Best Friend tragedy (Please Help)

Ok heres the situation: my bestfriend is long distance dating this guy and my best friend thought she could trust him so she told me to add him to my hotmail and i did and i guess he didnt no who iw as so i asked him if he had a gf and he said no...so he lied abt going out with my bestfriend..he lied abt loving her...Well a couple days after that she want to go back out with him...I really dont understand why at all...but shes with him currently and i particaly dont get along with him at all...Hes tearing are friendship apart...and my bestfriend seems to be really blind..She says that she likes him but doesnt like him..i dislike that its either u do or u dont....So any advice as to handle this awkward situation my bestfriend cares abt him after all he did to me and her...and im stuck on the sidelines watching her get crushed........I need Help.

From experience the only thing you can do is wait it out.
If you try get involved you'll only end up annoying your friend and make her more determined to stay with him.
Let the 'relationship' run it's course and when it's over, be the supportive friend you are.

And never EVER say "I told you so"

Marcus

^^ He pretty much said it all.

You did your part already. You added him, he lied to you and that still didn't keep her from him. If she's blind of it now, you have to let her make her OWN mistakes, there's no sense in trying to stop it..it will make her want to be in it more. I've had this experience with a few of my friends, and as much as it hurt me to watch them being torn apart by someone that didn't deserve them in the first place...they learned.

So you have got to her learn on her own, if she doesn't experience it now, than she'll never know. And it's better to live young and know what could have happened than to go on and not know what could have happened and wonder about it the rest of your life. So, like Marcus has stated...wait it out, be there for her when and if it falls apart...and NEVER throw it in her face.

Best wishes. =)

But what if in the end this i no longer have the bestfriend i had before..I would die if i lost her shes my other half and she already yelling at me because he wants to break up with her cause i dont like him....Wouldnt if u loved a guy not care wat ur friend thought and still love him if its really love?......Why out of all my problems i cant handle this one.

Yes its really hard to watch ur best friend wither away as it also pushes us apart....Ill stay away..And let this unfold..She wont be the same in the end.....Thank you =)

Darling, in the end you just have to be there. She may be like this now because she is infatuated by this guy, and she doesn't know what's going to happen in the end, no one does. But as long as you are there for her, she will see who she needs in her life.

He seems to be using you as an excuse to break up with her..which is pathetic really. There is a real reason he wants to break up with her, and it is not you..that is a cover-up because he is really too weak to say what he actually feels. Almost ALL of my friends hate my boyfriend, he doesn't let it phase him nor do I let it phase me. We love each other, and that's all that matters...but in her case, it's something more than that.

And if she throws away your friendship over this boy, than sorry to say, but she isn't a true good friend..and you deserve better than that.

Best wishes. =)

Thank you so much ill sit back and watch it play out and if she doesnt like me in the end she missing out...Her bf is using me as an excuse and ive told her tht...She will come to realize this some way. <3 Thank you so much <3

No problem. I hope it all works out for you. =)