im confused about me and my best friend.. help please?

I don't blame u 4 being confused! simla sort of fing happened 2 me and we decided it was best just to stay mates, cos afterwards theres no going back! ur prob hurtin finding out that know hes got a gf. But maybe he didn't want to tell you incase he hurt you. does that make any sense? he may have thought it was for the best. Cheer up chicken, plenty more fish in the sea!!

Let us know how you get on and keep ur chin up.

Holly x

You made the right decision, not to go out with him

Well it sounds as though you want to be more than friends with this guy? Who's to say that after (and if) you break up you won't be friends? And him being with another girl is probably his way of trying to forget the fact you turned him down. So, maybe a deep bond of friendship is the best foundation for a relationship. Who knows, just another opinion for you.

-leaves-

going out with someone shouldn't screw up a relationship unless your really stupid i mean i've gone out with 6 of my good friends and we broke up only one of them was angry and thats because she wanted me to be upset