Do the sparks ever fade away...

When you're dating someone, you get those stupid butterflies in your stomach, your heart beats when they come into a room, and your at a loss for words...rite? well should they fade away as time goes on?

They do fade away to some extent cos the love gets deeper, but when Marccus surprises me with a kiss or some other gesture, the old flutterbyes make an appearence again =)

Yes..they fade away the longer you go out. It's not really the sparks fading, but really it's you and your partner getting comfortable with each other.

I always wondered about this. ^ the above post make sense.
But it also makes sense that if he or she surprises you that they can make old appearences.

Kinda pointless but all well.
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Yes, they do fade away to some extent. But, you have to find ways to keep the spark alive :)

It can fade but it can always come back again. you just have to work at it

Nope, well they have never faded away with me... But then again I'm just a freak haha

I'm new to this whole discussion board thingie, but somebody help me out. im on the receiving end of the sparks fading. My gf recently broke up with me over this because she started feeling the butterflies for another guy. I just dunno what to do. She says we'll never get back together cuz she'll never let it happen. But I'd do anything to have her back. I just don't think i can rekindle the spark because she wont let it happen. She wants me to move on, but I don't know what to do. Any Suggestions?

Of course they do, but they aren't gone completely. Whenever Gemma does something sweet or unexpected, they flare up.
Thats love

So what if they completely?

If they completely fade it's not the end of the world, as long as the deeper love is still there, you've got it made

And what if that fades too?

Then i think the answer is obvious..
Want me to spell it out or something?

If everything goes, it's over.
Thought that was kind of obvious =/

And man.if ur ex g/f says ur not ever getting back together. u deserve better cause she doesnt feel the same way. sorry im being harsh but i've had my heart broken before.

I don't think they fade, they just become less common. Mostly because with time, you become more comfortable around that person. Also as you get to know them, you are able to predict them a little more and they can't just catch you off guard -as easily- as they could before.

Yeah they do lesser but when my man does something even just touch me unexpectedly. my heart skips a beat. in my beliefe, they stay but they are around that often you grow used to it. until something triggers them, and the feeling is stronger. but hate to say it, you can loose feelings,