Betrayed please respond to this with advice

What on earth do you do when the one you loved most just up and lets your biggest secret out to the entire community and makes half your school hate you because of what you are?

I talk to them and tell them how it felt, and how it hurt me...if they don't understand and do some damage control...I break it off.

You are going to live with whatever that was and the humiliation and the hurt...so you're best off to keep the ones who actually care close to you..

I would confront whoever did that to you and explane how much it hurts. if you care for them enough then maybe they can be part of your life again but if it was me I would not give them the time of day after hurting me with such a secret. I would focus on the people who truly cared for me. hope that helps.

sarah

Thats a really difficult situation to be in. I know because I've sort of been there. I agree with Sarah. If you're close enough then you can probably sort things out by talking to them and letting know that they've hurt you. If you end out drifiting apart then maybe it's for the best. Maybe there's a better friend waiting down the road. Good Luck
xx

Smile, act like nothing has happened and let them know you'll never trust them again.

That's not really a healthy way of doing it up tharrr, but it would be more annoying for the person who did it.

Obviously if they could just DO THAT to you, they didn't love you and didn't feel like you meant as much to them as they did to you. It's happened to me before, I repaired the friendship but sometiems I feel like I should've just let them go. If you give all your energy into forming a connection with someone, only to have them break it, they just aren't worth your time. You're better than that, and really just way better than them.

Good luck bbydoll. <3

Thanx for all the advice you all ave gven me.

I wouldn`t worry about the opinions of people who would hate you for what you are.Its very hard to find people you can trust with a confidence,take it as a life lesson and be a little cautious in the future with personal info.

Well not many people can do this... but i ignore it... people always come crying back

Well, I tried talking it out, and I had my best friend listen in, not only did that not work, but the one who I loved that much started swearing at my best friend and calling her a spy for the loser army. I finally said I was through being tolerant of the hatred that the loved person had put me through and told her I was finished being her dog. Then I told her to go screw herself and ended the friendship for good.

I never said the person/people who hurt me were male, they're all female. that was the secret that was blurted out. that's why my school treats me like some kind of freak, and that's why the whole thing was started.

I ask myself that god dan question everyday.

THe cure for hurt from betrayal is like finding the cure for cancer.

I don't think you cna trust someone after a stunt like that. No way.

I decided to refuse to even speak to her. it isn't like I need another reason to hurt myself anymore. Plus the one whom I betrayed has forgiven me finally, though I still have a major heartache when I realize that I was being that rude to her to the point where she somehow became a different person.

Then you know now to use the trust factor better towards people.

Extremely true, though I'm afraid to hurt her now.

If I hurt my girl, who I haven't spoken to in six days now, She gets mad and then I feel bad about it, but I feel like I don't know her anymore. She made so many promises and she kept each one, but I broke a few of my own, and I am not sure if she's still sore about that even though I apologized over 100 times for everything.

Well, she finally spoke to me again. The poor girl is extremely tired and stressed. She works nights now and I want nothing more than to make all of her problems vanish. I don't know what to do and now it's for a different reason. And besides, the day I seek revenge on her will be the day I commit suicide.(both will ever happen).

I'm so stressed out now, I didn't sleep, I'm always worried about my friends, and Ashley-onna isn't helping me out at all.

Chin up, don't let that bother you.
You still have friends, and friends don't let best friends down.

So don't look back and be more carfull next time.

That usually works, but now apparently Amanda (the one who betrayed me) even said she doesn't hate me and doesn't want me to hurt myself anymore and personally I think she's just feeding me a load of bullshit, but I can't just keep my fangs bared and bite off anybody's head that bothers me. It's like I have two leashes attatched to me and one is made of metal, the other of paper, Ashley is holding the metal one, Amanda has the paper, but the metal is old and rusted so if pulled both will break, I don't want the metal one to break and I'm fixing it slowly, but the paper is strong enough that it's choking me. I don't know who to follow, I don't know when to lead.

Well the community know who you really are now

Yeah and I dn't know whether to be afraid and ashamed or jump for joy because my biggest secret that was killing who I tried to be is finally who I truly am.