Somebody Please help me.......

Me n my gf were dating for a year. We broke up when we were dating for 3 months and I found out that she cheated on me. I was mad and i told her to never do it again. Regardless, we broke up. 3 months later, we got back together. We were soo happy together and completely in love. We had plans to go off and marry each other and everything. She recently said that se lost those stupid little butterflies for me and started having them over this guy. She said she just wasn't as happy as she could be with me. We broke up 2 days ago. Turns out, she wound up cheating on me again, as I just found out today. Before I found this out, I would've done anything to have her back, even though she said we would never get back together again. I wanted her back so badly. Now, im super pissed. I have no clue what to do....

You're 17.. you were together for three months or so and wanted to get married.. she cheated on you twice..

Can anyone else see what's wrong here??

Sorry sweets, but you need to get over her and live your life a little =)

No, we were together for a year

It's still only a year. You're seventeen.. she's how old?
And she cheated on you twice, sorry sweets, but i think the answer is staring you right in the face,
if i were you i'd be thankful that you had a lucky escape.

I agree with Gem on this one.

Yea....i just can't get over her...somehow, I still love her....she just doesn't return the feeling...I know i need to get over her, but I just cant..I just talked to her about it over the phone cuz she didnt know i knew. We fought about it and basically ruined the really good friendship we still had. Things are gonna be really awkward now and idk wat to do. I was gonna hang out with a whole bunch o ppl on sat. at the movies. I had the idea to have her best friend invite her and basically not let her know i was going. Anybody thing thats a bad idea?(I'm still not so sure about it)

But you need to realize shes not worth your time..

Still didnt answer me bout that idea..but i talked to one of my friends and she said it was a bad idea...anyone else agree?

"I had the idea to have her best friend invite her and basically not let her know i was going."

Yeah that could be a very bad idea and it could also lead her to believe you are obsessive. Even if you love her, she cheated on you. WHy do you feel so bad about yourself, that you want to be with someone who has no respect for you or your relationship. You're young, go out, have fun and move on, don't beat a dead horse.

I agree with Bob

Plus, don't turn into a stalker guy, you can do so much better.
Just leave her to mess her own life up

Yea, i guess y'all are right... it just hurts soo much and i just can't believe how she could just throw everything away...it just rele sux... but thx everbody...We were doin fine as just friends on Saturday, but i messed it all up today...but eventually, we'll get back to bein friends...soo yea

Aww i wish all guys were like you. you really love her dnt you... if yous wre ment to be it'll all work out xoxoxoxox

Yea, i really do....we rele did have something special and it just rele hurts so see it all go away...but thx for the support..

Once they cheat on you, it kinda tells you somethings wrong. They do it twice.. well you need to get out of there mate.
Find a girl who appreciates you
Marcus

Yea.....she did though, but i guess thats the keyword, DID. Yea, pretty much I'm outta there, so hopefully it wont be too bad, thx everybody.

It will hurt, but don't make the same mistake i did, im glad u got outa there hun. We'll be there avery step of the way.

x

Anybody think still trying to be her friend(after a while of healing of course) would be a bad idea?

Im 18i had dated a girl for 1.5years.. the hole time her mouther was dieing.. every night i was there for her to hold her... then came hard times she ended up cheating on me... that night i felt bad about the was things had been so i went to her house at 12:00 she was not home i waited 2hrs and ended up reading a note from him... it was so easy to leave her i was over it the next day.... 60 days later i got a call from her... she said she needed to see me it was about her mom... I met up with her she told me her mother was fine and poured her heart out to me.... i took her back..... almost a year later her mother had passed away.. i was there that night 4 her and every nice since.... she said she needed time so i let her then 2weeks later i asked her to marry me she said yes then sleept with me.... all while she had a b/f at the time and that night l left to go home quess who was on his was over there.... i found all this out about 1hr ago.. im not pissed, im not mad but this time it seems like i cant get over her.. b/c i do still love her when i know i shouldnt im just hurt that kinda hurt were you dont want to do anything... seriously there's so many more girls out there... i know this but im not looking for a slut and thats all i ever see.. i know im fine alone but idk some 1 give me some advice

HA HA HA, I just went through this wit my ex....He didnt cheat on me twice though but its like the same thing...i couldnt get over him either and it has been 10months and i'm still not completly over him and there is no garentee that you will get over her you just gotta let time work its magic i mean i for one would never go back out with him cuz he broke up with me for another girl but she cheated on you twice! Idk if it was the same guy or what but either way-thats terrible and i am so sorry that you had to go through this but trust me it is worth it cuz things like this just makes you stronger and now you can only go up from here....Good luck!

Just to any of u who said getting back with her was a bad idea, y'all suck. We did, and now we couldnt be any happier