Just friends...or more?

  • ***searching for the one
    17 years ago

    Girls...how do you know when you like a guy as more than just a friend?

    i had this issue last summer with a really close guy friend that i thought i liked as more than a friend, but it turned out my feelings were just a little messed up.

    so now theres this guy and were pretty close. i met him last summer. we always have fun together and sometimes wen i hang out with him and some of my other friends i wish they would all disappear and it just be the two of us. but its really awkward bc ther are so many people that think were dating. even our moms have asked us if were together! but when someone asks he always says.."ew. we could never be more than friends." and also wen he talks about girls he likes or whatever i sometimes get jelous.

    but even if i do decide that i like him i wouldnt know how to adress it bc if he doesnt feel the same way it could ruin our strong friendship.

  • MischieviousMya
    17 years ago

    Welllllll

    the reality is.......some guys just dont see gurls more than friends. it sux and we put our heart on the line and we end up gettin hurt. i say move on....easier said than done however. its better to have him as a friend than nothin at all rite??? if a guy likes a girl, they tend to have a hard time showin it. this guy isnt worth your time at all. find a new one or else you'll keep lettin him make a fool of yourself. hope this helps!! =0]

  • ***searching for the one
    17 years ago

    Ook then thanks. now can someone tell me the difference between liking someone as a friend and liking them as more then a friend?

  • ***searching for the one
    17 years ago

    Eh. i really dont know wat to do.

  • lil angel wings
    17 years ago

    Um well i have been going through this one right now. when a guy is just a friend you are often calm around him right?? but when you realy attracted to him you start to worry bout little things. if your like me and hug all your friends, you may feel weird when he touches you. like you get the shakes or goosebumps. if your still not sure sit down with him, have a one on one convo, and see how you feel after that.

  • MischieviousMya
    17 years ago

    Your heart skips a beat duhhhh =D

    wellllllll when you like someone as a friend theres no flirting and they have great advice, your super comfortable with them and your not embarassed.

    When you like someone more than a friend you feel like everything they do or say is wonderful. you remember the littlest things and butterflys are always in your tummy when your with them. you wait for a call or message from them and you cant stop thinkin bout them. Also you get jealous easily.

    does that help?? ............... maybe not lol =D