Is he the one?

  • Bridgett
    17 years ago

    Hello everyone,
    I am looking for advise on love, I think I love this guy named Tyler but im not for sure. He says he likes me and he told my friend to tell me, so she did. But now he flirts with other girls, what do I do?

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    Well judging by age, i'd say he wasn't the 'one'.
    They'll be plenty of guys you think are the one before you actually find him.
    And if he's the same age as you, then thats why he'll be flirting with other girls. He's only a kid

    Ah for the good old days when being 12 and 13 was playing tag and hide and seek.. *nostalgia*

  • Bridgett
    17 years ago

    Thanks *Gem*!!!!!!

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    Hey, enjoy it while you can sweets.
    You have the freedom at the moment to do what you want =)

  • BeautifulxMess
    17 years ago

    You can't do anything about it. If he likes you, he'd come to his senses and ask you out. Judging by your age, he's young too. He is still ignorant and still young. Young guys are just confused. They are immature and don't know what to think about girls. They just mess around because they see it's no big deal, when in your eyes you see that it's wrong. You're still young. Don't worry about guys right now. You are still feeling things that are new, and still have things to experiance. Boys will always be around. Trust me. You're better off without a guy that early in your age anyways. Take it from someone who has been through it all ready. Just live your life. Guys just ruin it when you're trying to have fun. It's the true love that you want to wait for. Good Luck. :DTay^__^

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    ^^agrees.

  • xfAdInGxaWaYx
    17 years ago

    What Angelina said. If you're asking us this then he definately isn't the one. Hell at 12 I still thought guys had cooties...

  • Bridgett
    17 years ago

    Okay Okay... all is said and fair. I understand, I have come to my own senses. Don't love at a young age. Obviously hes not the right guy and thank you all for your advise... and that last one..... COOTIES!? YOU THOUGHT GUYS HAD COOTIES AT MY AGE.... WOW! What century did you come from. There are hot guys, NERDS, and just cute guys. Thats where I don't get where you are coming from... lol. All guys really are today is hormonal and try anything to get a girls attention. So yes i have learned my lesson. And probably for my benifits I won't really mess around with love and boyfriends. Like one of you said be a kid while you can.

    BRIDGETT

  • Bridgett
    17 years ago

    Yeah your really right. And yes I have dated/ had a boyfriend that was a NERD. And to be honest he treated me better than all the stupid jocks I ended up going out with.

  • BeautifulxMess
    17 years ago

    He's only a nerd because you say he is, but if you got to know him, you can clal him your friend. Please don't call someone nerd. My little sister is called that and made fun of because she has a disability and I can't stand it. A bunch of people look at someone and go Woa where they come from blah blah and I'm like don't say that she or he is a really cool person. So yeah. Nerds are what you make of them, and they are people YOU classify. Everyone else may, but if you say they're not, then they are not. Got my drift?

  • xPerfect Chaosx
    17 years ago

    ^^ Agreed. People who label are just plain shallow. Those "nerds" are probably some of the better people out there. Don't rag on someone just because they are a so called "nerd". Why don't you get to know people before you judge them?!

    .:Danielle:.

  • Colby
    17 years ago

    Isnt it possible to fall in love at a young age???

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    Yes, but it's puppy love =)

  • BeautifulxMess
    17 years ago

    True. You can't fall IN love but you just feel a warm puppy love. Which I find adorable.

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    Haha, what have you got against nerds? I'm wearing a shirt right now that says "I Love Nerds" and it has a picture of Snoopy dressed up in glasses and some cute little suit. Thought that was kind of a funny coincidence. :P

    And, I don't believe he's the one. Especially at your age, no offence intended. :)