Really confused

  • ImNotPerfect20
    17 years ago

    I used to "like" this guy quite a bit.. then my ex came along and i kinda ignored him the other guy... (i know i was wrong but what was i supposed to do) my ex showed intrest in me in the first 10 min of meeting him.. the guy i liked did not really show intrest until a year after i started talking to him. anyway im starting to "fall" for the guy i liked agian.. and i dont know what to do.. i dont know if he likes me.. (because of the fact that i ignored him) and im just really confused right now.. anyone have any advice?

  • lil angel wings
    17 years ago

    Hey, i have been there before. but i just sttraight out told him, mind you this guy was in a relationship he didnt want, but thats beside the point.; anyway, it goes on the fact this guy had feelings for me, but tried to deny them because of a 7 year age gap. and ihe has a kid. but after a hasty breakup with my ex i really needed a shoulder to cry on and he was there. we have been dating fo 5 months now.

    Girl tell the guy you feeling "if you love someone tell them cause hearts are often broken by words left unspoken"

    Good luck. and remember, no guy is worth the trouble if he only breaks your heart in two.

    guys same for you if a girl breaks your heart, not worth the time.

  • ImNotPerfect20
    17 years ago

    Wish it was that easy.. lol i wish i could just tell him.. I ignored him for about 3 months because of my ex.. idk.. im so confused..

    Good adivce though.. i just have to get up the courge to tell him..

  • lil angel wings
    17 years ago

    Hey girl, i abandon this guy for a year. i just blurted it out. i didnt think i could tell him either. make some sort of move.
    Do you write poetry?? if so give him one in a blank card. send it to him via post.

    or just be straight out with it. if he likes ya in that way he would really appreciate it.

    Either way its nothing to worry about to much. i would rather have my questions answered then live with a "what if"

  • ImNotPerfect20
    17 years ago

    Yes i write poetry.. actucally im in the process of writing something about him right now.. just making a few corrections and stuff.. its not someting he can read though.. its my feelings about him.
    another thing.. hes VERY shy.. lol its cute but annoying... im shy to.. its not a good mix lol i cant live with the what if either.. but its hard..

  • lil angel wings
    17 years ago

    Being shy should not be a curse, i m very shy by nature too. hmm. or just do some small gesture like call him and just ask him if he would like to go to the movies or something,
    two shy people make a very cute couple. i should know. but ask yourself, what lenths are you willing to go

    "if you love some one tell them, if you do they might break your heart, if you dont you might break theirs."

    Love is complicated, and me only being 17 doesnt help much, but i am sure he will get over the fact you ignored him.

  • ImNotPerfect20
    17 years ago

    Lol thank you.. and before i dated the other guy.. i asked him to go to the movies. he ended up thinking that i was asking as a friend.. *sigh* but now i think he will know. hopefully. anyway thanks for the help.. i can try the call thing.. seeing as hes never online anymore..(due to working to much)

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    Just remember, the other guy is your ex for a reason
    Be honest with the guy you like and tell him you were being stupid cos you were confused and that you really like him.
    Honesty is the best policy in this situation.
    Good luck
    *Gem*

  • ImNotPerfect20
    17 years ago

    Thanks for the advice!

  • Leanne
    17 years ago

    Exactly what Gem said, ex's are exactly that for a reason, if its meant to be you would stay together, i say you tell this guy, you never know what might happen!!
    Good luck hun :)