I dont know what to do?

My bestfriend, who is a guy, keeps telling me that my boyfriend told him that he doesnt care about me and he's lying about loving me. And i know that my bestfriend wouldnt lie to me...i dont know what to believe.

Ive tried talking to him but he either gets mad or changes the subject

I dont kno. he gets loud with me and he's like "oh my f***ing god! you know i love you and care about you! so stop thinking i dont" or he'll just tell me to shut up.

:S hmmm thats strange if he loves you then i dont see why he would get mad at you...

You really need to think about this. i mean if you best friend says that your boyfriend thinks that talk to your boyfriend. then you need to think that if you best friend says that and its not true then maybe you best friend is jealuos.

Ive tried talking to him tho & it never works! i feel for him and im afraid to lose him

That just happend to me.. its really hard.. turns out that my friend was telling the truth..
just got to think of it this way.. if he does not love you.. there is no way you can force him to.. beleive me it still has not worked for me.. i loved my ex and he did not love me..

Yea it is hard...REALLY hard. but sometimes i think "if he didnt love me then why is he with me?" and other times i dont kno ne more

Thats what i thought to. he told me that he wanted to see if i was right for him..

just a though how long have you been together?

Well so far we've been together for a month and 3 weeks. it will be 2 months on the 16th.

but like when i talk to him is "Baby i cant live without you!" or "Beautiful you're everything to me!" but what i hear from my bestfriend and my boyfriends friends, he says he dont care about me and he dont really love me and that everything he tells me is a lie.

i dont want to believe it but its all i hear! i fell for this kid like WOAH! and i really dont know what to do.

I NEED HELP! =[

Thats how my ex was like. he told me it all before.. we were together for almost 3 months.. idk.. i Loved him more then anything.. but then he broke up with me telling me that he did not love me as much as he thought he did.. idk what to say.. all i can really tell you is to try and talk to him about it.. i know its hard but its the only thing that will work.

Should i leave him or stay with him to see how it all works out?

I say for now that you should stay with your boyfriend, stay because you dont have concrete facts dont go by assumption, your best friend, well as for him tell him that this is something you need to do on your own, because it is. No one really knows if someone loves someone, love comes in too many different forms.

Hey Britt, if you wanna give advice plz dont jump to conclusions.

Thanx,
i'll stay and we'll see what happens

I don't think Britt was randomly making assumptions. In fact, I think she was right on, and even speaking from experience. To the poster: If you're talking to a mature person about a concern, they would take it rationally, not just blow up on you and try to avoid the subject. If he cares about you, why isn't he caring about your worries? I don't know everything about your situation, but based on what you've said, plus the simple fact that you were looking for this advice at all, suggests that there's something not right.

Try talking to him again. If he's not willing to listen, what does that say about your relationship?

Ive been talking to him about it and he said that he was really confused at the time and dont know what to think. and now all i hear from his friends is that he's falling for me but my bestfriend still dont trust him.

you all have been a BIG help! thank you very much! i thought i was going crazy lol....

well if ne of you have a myspace hit me up

www.myspace.com/i_love_you_45