My boyfriend is taking another girl to prom.

Haha.
okay so before he was my bf he was was my best friend. and he was dating this chick. then i realized that i wanted to be with him. and he had always had a thing for me so we worked it out and decided to give it a shot, however, he had already asked her to prom...so tonight he is at prom with her. lol its just a funny story.
thought you should know lol

I'd croak if my boyfriend went to prom with someone else. How can you be so happy about this. Sorry to rain on your parade, but that's nothing really I'd be happy about. I'd be worried. YOu can bet your @$$ I would be running to that prom and making sure he's behaving himself.

Who said she was 'happy' about it?

Ok....ummm...couldnt he just say I cant go to the prom with you? (you meaning the other girl)

I know, I've never understood that. If I was with someone and made previous plans with an ex, I would automatically cut the plans...because thats weird.

I would die if my boyfriend took anyone else to prom! why is he still going with her if he's with you?

This happened with a couple of my friends junior year. Trevor and Christi had been going out, and decided to go to prom together. Then they broke up, and Trevor started to have a thing for my best friends. But, he and Christi were still friends and all, and they decided to still go to prom together, just because it was easier than changing all the plans, and my best friend just went with another friend. It ended up working just fine. Not a big deal at all. However, it's too bad that you can't be there where they are, TP. That would have made things easier.

Prom is something special, that should be shared with your special someone.. ever heard of what happens on prom night.. But dont worry if hes also youre best friend then he would never do something like that. But persoanlly I think he should be taking you

Lol yeah i never did say i was happy about it, its just a funny story.

well she had already bought her dress and everything, and she is younger so she would have had no where to wear it to. like dont get me wrong he asked me how i felt about it. but she was so excited so id feel bad.
and i know him and i know he wouldnt do anything. hes not like that.

Thank you :) lol
i really hope they are having a good time.
cause i wouldnt want her night to be ruined.
lol some people may believe that im way to leniant with my boyfriend...but its just trust...i hear it makes a good relationship.

Awww someone who understands and not jealous

I just don't see how you find it funny...it's kinda errant that you find it funny. Most people would find this something to be pissed about..

Well then that is sad.
why ruin something she was so excited about?
why encourage him to go back on his word?
i feel bad for you if you would have the constant thought that something would happen.
hes not like that.

Hats of to you for being so good about this. I really respect you for it. I, personally, would be so jealous and majorly pissed off but it is really good that he told you the situation and it's amazing how much you trust him.

Aw thank you.
i think if he hadnt asked me about it before hand, i would be upset, i mean this wasnt a quick decision it was well thought through, but i consider it very respectful that he is taking her, and sure it would have been nice to go with him, but hey there is always my prom!
:)

Little update:

they went. they had a great time :)
she was ecstatic which made me happy.
and hes accompaning me to mine in a months time.
so it all worked out for everyone lol.

Thats cool. =]

i have a date to my prom(in 2 yrs) already. my friend and i always seem to hang out at every dance together and have an amazing time. so hes just like(wh8ile i was dancing on his feet) we should go to prom together, you know we'll end up with eachother anyways. so i said i would go. (on the note that if either of us were in a relatiojnship it wouldnt necc. happen) but its cool to know. and hes tall and handsome. so pics woudl be cute. =]

Well I also think that it's good that you can trust him, and bad for not being jealous >.<

That isn't right hun. He is YOUR boyfriend, not this other girls. I know he already told her he was going to take her to prom, but that was before you two were together. Forget the past and look at the present, how would he feel if you went to prom with another guy? Not well I bet.. I'd sit him down if I were you and would talk to him!

~Loveless Nights~

^-^ im glade things went well :P its always good to be able to trust your boyfriend when you know his at a prom with some one els =]

Well as long as you trust him. then everything should be fine. but it is weird the hes going with her to prom and they dated before

I am just pleased that some people havent forgotten what trust means

It would really hurt me if my lover went with someone else to an event like that... ewww

Lol this seems to have sparked a debate.
im a pretty laid back person and i trust him with my life so why should i be against it?
nothing happened, i know he wouldnt do that, after everything we have been through...i just know he wouldnt. so this way everyone is happy.

Wow if only you could give me some of those non jealous ways.

I would be angry. Angry isn't even the word - if she's an ex-girlfriend, she's a threat. Clearly, they have chemistry. I'm shocked at your attitude toward this. It's somewhat admirable.

Happens all the time girl. just cause he goes with her doesnt mean anything will happen

Ha! That is ridiculous. And what are you doing for Prom? Nothing, while your boyfriend is out with his ex on a night he will most likely remember for the rest of his life due to its traditional importance?

Haha..i would be pissed if my bf was going to prom w. another girl....but ur bf has a ood reason since he had already asked her

I will not be so happy thats all i could say!

Tottally my guy took another girl to prom and it mad me furious and he new it would and then she stayed at his place for the weekend wich made it even worse and i told him if he did anything i would take his "man hood" from him

My brother went to his formal and they had to do all these dances. At the time he had a beautiful girlfriend and he said, "I'm not going with her (his girlfriend)."
Everyone was like, "WHAT?!? You have to!"
He's like, "No, we've decided that we don't want to break each others toes, that would be embarressing!"
So, maybe he was just too embarressed to muck up.

Funny situation.... i would have been mad i suppose... but in ur position i don't see anything u can do...

Couldn't he have just said, "Sorry, I have a girlfriend now, so is it alright if i go with her?" I mean, if he has a girlfriend, its not right to take another girl on a date...but i guess if he was just being polite and not backing out...idk lo,l

Lol thought i would just give you an update.
the girl he took to his prom. actually sent me a really nice letter just saying how much she appreciated me being cool with it and how much respect she had for me, and if he could be with anyone but her shes glad its me. so i thought that was sweet of her.

Thats kinda cool . I know ive been in the same situation but thats a really hard thing to do. so kudos to you my dear

Well i personally migh thave had a friend spy go there too secretly lol
but at least you know he doesnt go back on his promises.
and if theres THAT amuch chemistry between them, it wouldnt matter i fthey went to prom, they woulod just see eachother and be back together.
if shes an ex, chances are, shes not a threat, because they know why they would never work out.
i say kudos, doll.

That's good for you. actually, i just would've asked my bf if i could take another person to prom too just so you could be together with him. just my opinion.

^nvm that was dumn, but i'm happy that you were cool about it too, cuz it could have caused you your relationship with him and that wouldn't have been cool