Envied most.

Okay so I've been living with this for the last year and a half of my life, and no one seems to get how I feel, they all just tell me what I wanna hear , or that its going to be okay. Here goes..

I'm with this guy right now, that I love no matter what. Honestly as cliche as this sounds but he is my bestfriend. We tell each other everything, hes who I have my girl talks with, lol werid yes, but thats us. And well people say were perfect for each other. But he has many imperfections, not that I don't accept them because I love him for who he is. But they are there because of his ex girlfriend of a year and a half, his first love. I always find myself trying to or comparing myself up to her. its like this;

He may hold me in his arms,
but he puts you on a pedestal.
congrats you will always be in his
F*cking thoughts.

(made that bout this sitaution)
but anyways .. sometimes It's stupid but I keep thinking. They are meant to be together..
So I just don' t know what to do...
PLEASE HELP !!

If so many people say your perfect for each other than you are and in saying so in most realtionships especially ones that have been togetha a long time both people wanda wat it wuld be like if they were with someone else even though they know the one they really want and need is the one there always holding in there arms

hope it helps

He's with you right? You both love each other right? Then don't worry about it! I'm with a guy right now who's amazing. He had gotten out of a 2 year realtionship ((In November, so he's been single since)) with a girl who at one point was everything he wanted. I had compared myself to her and then thought: "He's not with her, he's with me and I am who I am." He loves you for who you are and that's all that matters. Don't worry about his ex.. :] Hope I helped

btw Welcome to P&Q! :]

Actully 'hello beautiful' that did help, thanks alot.. and hehe thanks .

:) hello beautifuls right :) just be your self and have fun :)

I'm glad that I could help you! :] I try!

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