Friend Problems

Please I really need help on this!

I know this is going to be kind of long but it's bugging me. I have a friend named Tiana. She's like the coolest person I've hung out with. But it's just she thinks that mostly everything has to revolve around her. These are a few things she did to me or one of my frriends,

1) Cheated on my best friend

2) When the guy she liked broke up with her,
she blamed it on my distant friend

3) Blamed me for not just bringing me when one of my other friends,
just walked me there and didn't leave.

4) Told me that some of my friends were worthless.

5) Made me feel bad about how I choose the wrong person,
that blamed everything on me , when I really did what was right I GOT RID OF HIM!

6) Told me how I never 'freakin' understand how she feels,
when I sit by her for atleast an hour telling her it's gonna be okay.

She always saying how shes going to go kill herself and how shes always getting the crappiest part of life and how shes not good at anything. I tried to sit down and listen to her but whenever I try telling her like some people are just going to be like that she yells at me. Yet when I went to her crying she just left me and said to get over it because I was apparently a 'big cry baby'. She has the best life most of us would want. She has parents that care and friends that care about her also. Everytime that she has a boyfriend break up with her *the biggest reason they break up with her is because she cheats on them* and she thinks itâ??s the end of the world.

What should I do? I can't keep just making it look like it's alright when it's not.

I know how you feel one of my friends, is almost exactly like this!! You should just forget about her, she's just using you...

No friends are ever perfect. You just have to decide whether her "cool" outweighs her witchiness. In the long run it doesn't matter how popular your friend is in other people's eyes. It will only matter in your eyes. Your profile says you're 14. That means you are probably in eigth grade right? eigth grade is horrible in realtionships (meaning friends/boys) but every year of highschool will get better.

hope it turns out ok.
good luck =]

Im a freshman in High School.

She just started doing this.

And Olivia what are you talking about when you said 'her cool' outweighs her witchiness. I wasn't even talking about popularity.

Whatever, last time I try to help you.

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I couldn't be bothered reading your original post because I feel it doesn't belong here, stated by the word 'problems' this is for friendships on the P&Q site, if you need advice or help, repost this in sadness and depression, thats where it should be, people go there to specifically give and get advice and help, you might a greater and more valuable response there.

ciao

I have a problem with a friend and this is the friendship fourms so I posted it here.

Last time I tried posting a problem somewhat simular to this in the saddness and depression they deleted it because it wasn't in the 'correct fourm'.

This is in the right forum, I think.
I posted one in here about a problem with a friend. And it never got deleted or anything.

Anyway I think you need you talk to her, tell her how you feel.
See where that goes.
And if you ever need to talk, you can always pm me.

Whenever I do try to talk to her she just gets all mad and that and say how horrible her life is.

She's a bit dramatic with some of that stuff and its getting annoying.

I have a friend jessica and we went through the same thing. .

her boyfriend had broken up with her a few months before and she had turned into exactly what you posted above. including the cheating and everything. well anyways i got fed up with everything so i a started to freak out on her. she blamed me.. and what not. then she stopped talking to me.. for about 3 months. now my boyfriend told me to talk to her. but i wouldnt bend (i am stuborn like that) well anyways adventully she talked to me again

and now we are like we were just with less drama and less annoyance. i tell her when she is being annoying and she tells me when i am.. haha it works out like that.

well i guess my point is. if she blames you just shove it back in her face.

Whenever I try she just gets all mad and yells on how i do things wrong and that.

Just a few days ago she freaked out on me and James becasue we just mad a joke telling her to go sing like a rock star and she just got all mad. She told me she hates my friends and yet whenever I talk 'bad' about her friends she just tells me to shut the ----- up yet when I tell her to shut it she just says well I dont like your friends.

Ticking me off really bad.

"She's like the coolest person I've hung out with."

I believe that statement is why Olivia said: "You just have to decide whether her "cool" outweighs her witchiness."

And I agree with her. But it sounds to me like she isn't worth your time. Maybe when she starts losing all her friends she'll realize what a b*tch she's being and lay off a little.