Should i lsiten to others....

Okay, i really like this guy named mike. he's a senior at my school, kind of a crazy bad ass kid....doesn't listen to rules, gets detention...alot, has this kinda mean outer shell but he's really sweet when i'm alone with him...

well i have alot of friends at school and they all tell me not to get involved with him. his old friend told me alot of things about him i didn't know. random people come up to my ex bf and ask if i'm dating mike and they tell my ex to not let me get involved with him.

i'm not one to listen or care what other people think , but these are people that know mike, know how he is, and i guess don't want meto get hurt. so as much as i care for him, should i just listen to them and lay back or stay with him?

Confront him. If a relationship with him is what you really want, clear up the drama. Tell him you've been warned, if you stick around knowingly, then if you get burned, you can't complain. Your friends are just trying to look out for you.

I understand what your saying, it's just he's so different around me than when we're with other people and it's almsot like he's two different people. but thank you for the advice.