How Realistic is it?

Is it realistic to have a working relationship when we're going to go to different colleges? I'm having doubts, rightfully so.

And, if he cheated on his last girlfriend with me (worst decision of my life), will he cheat on me?

Hrm. Well, things could get VERY tough and frustrating if you both are really busy all of the time; but it all really depends on how much you guys ACTUALLY want to be together. I live a far way away from my boyfriend and he works all day and I go to school and will be working nights soon, so it is tough, but we've been together since 2004, so it's been a long time with a little dip in between.

As for the cheating thing, I've also experienced that with this guy, he cheated on me but I gave him another chance. You may believe in the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" or you may not. But, again, it depends on whether or not YOU believe that you can trust him.

"Once a cheater, always a cheater" I believe strongly in this.

As long as you can spend time with him still then most likely it can work out!!but most important follow your heart!!!!!!!!!!