Was this supposed to happen or can it be changed?Plz help!

There was this guy i met he had everything in his personality i would want in a guy hes sweet romantic caring and loveing. I had i guess fallen in love i gave him everything and well but the way i got him was by stealing him from his girlfriend erika i went on and well we dated for about 1 and a half my grandma loves him as much as she loves me she says we were ment to be together he still talks to my grandma but we arent together we both cheated on each other a few times but we always loved each other the same we arent together and ive been seeing him but yesterday i found out that his x likes him and i for some reason told them to get back together and i told him i didnt like him but i dont i think i still love him did i do the right thing?i thought she never got a chance and that she deseves one. So did i do wrong but not following my heart or is it time to move on? Plz i need to know if it was right!!!!!!!!

Hey hun..
sounds like he were your first love??
k k yeah it is bad stealing him off someone else but it takes two to tango an he was part of letting you steal him off her!!!!
anyway sometimes hun its best to not follow your heart... be honest wth yourself sweet and answer these for me..

1.how do u feel inside when your with him???
2.what do you think when ever you see him??
3.who is the last person you think of at night???

if you want him because you really wanna be with him and you cant be with out him and regret doing what you did etc then you have to follow your heart and spk to him...

but if its just being a little jeaous because he mght be getting bk with ex.. and it like you dont want no one else to have him then you did the right thing and move on..... ppl say tht you should never go bk always go forward..

think about them 3 questions i asked you.. alot of the time we know the answers to our questions but we just dont like listening to them and we want other ppl to tell us..

anyway hun listen to that inner voice and the feelings that you feel...

take care
xhx

Well this is real hard because when im with him am in the most comforting place and when i see him i think about if he still loves me and well i fall asleep and im thinking about him but im scared that this is all just jelousy

Okay well if you both cheated on eachother .......... a few times ..... are you really sure you guys were 'meant to be'? I don't think you cheat on the person you're meant to be with. It really doesn't work that way.

Let's be mature.

Im sorry that you think im inmature but next time read right i said that thats what my grandma said

Hey ive been cheated on by every girl ive gone out with they all say im to up tight but they say there in love with my personality its just i get in to many fights so i watch my back but im not paranoid take it from a guy who never got a full chance it probrably meant the world to his other x

luv jess

I think if you're willing to cheat, then you shouldn't be in a relationship. And I feel bad for his ex, I can't believe she would take him back. He shouldn't be in a relationship either.

I do think your avatar is really cute though, lol. Just wanted to add that.

Love and cheating do not co-exist. Something is missing in your relationship, and that is...dun dun dun...LOVE! So break up, you're immature and confused.

Ok now don be bitchie u natrually feel sort of jealous

Jeeze jane so mean

You are really in love with him aren't you? You just want him to be happy even if he isn't with you. I'm sorry that this happened to you but you need to tell him the truth. if he really cares for you then he'll get what your saying...

If you did the right thing, you'll move on without anyone telling you you should and you'll find someone else. if you didn't do the right thing, you'll bot figure that out, it just might take him longer. plus, did you think, maybe she took him bk b/c she didn't want you to have him? i don't agree with the fact you two cheated on each other...twice, but i can't judge you for that and no body else here should do that either. you learned and you feel bad about it. and by what it sounds like, you told him you didn't like him b/c you want him to be happy and you really do love him. follow your heart