Am i really that messed up in the mind?

Ok, well my boyfriend is moving to tenesse in like a month( i live in ohio), and i really dont want him to move, i love him ALOT, but the thing that is on my mind is which guy is next, like who will i date when this guy moves, and it makes me feel bad because i really love him alot, advice?

You don't LOVE him... You like him, and when he's gone you'll move on. There's nothing wrong with it, you're 14, most people don't find love at that age.

^ I agree you dont love him.. if you did you would not be thinking which guy is next

WHen he moves on you WILL find someone else and forget all about him

Okay well. the guys above were a little harsh. so hears my piece

you care about him alot. and maybe you do 'love' him but not to the extent the guys above are thinking. you are thinking about who next because part of you is afraid to be alone and just because you find some one else doesnt mean you will forget about him. i have found some one else sense i was 14.. (3 years ago haha) and he moved away and yea. you wont foget about him, you just will end up drifftening away.

If you 'loved' him 'ALOT' you wouldn't even be considering moving on to new guys when he moved. You'd be determined to keep the relationship going despite the distance. So obviously you don't love him, tell him what you are really feeling to lessen his heartache when he moves and go up and pick up that other guy you already seem to have waiting.

Thanks for the help. but i still need advice

Oh,ok, well i agree, i mean i do love him, and i dont want people telling me that i dont, and i'm not obbsessed with whos next i just need and idea

I am

I think that you should just be single for awhile.. my friend is kinda like you, she broke up with her boyfriend, but then right away, she went out with another guy.. i'm not saying that you don't love him or anything, but maybe you should take it slow, don't try to fill the holes that your boyfriend is leaving behind.. because they are just going to cave right back in, and that's never pretty.. spend the time that you have left with your boyfriend wisely.. who knows what can happen!

Well. thats about the best advice i have had on here this whole time, that truly helps thank you

Lol, nice advice

No, your not messed up in the mind. But you just have to stop telling yourself you love him because you don't. I know how it feels to think or to want to think you love someone, feels great don't it? But he is moving, and yea you are going to be upset for a couple of weeks but someone will some along, and you'll probably think to yourself "wow, i love him" and then youll eventually think lesser and less of the one who moved away. Spend the last month together, have the best times and make the most memories.

Hes moving on june 15 and hes grounded for the next two weeks becuase of me