Friendship question.

  • Crystal Gaze
    17 years ago

    Ok for the longest time I've been hanging out with a group of girls. We get along and have some really fun times. But then I got my boyfriend- Jake who makes me feel complete- and they barely say 'Hi'. Its like suddenly because I have a boyfriend Im not welcome and they want nothing to do with me..
    Like what is it? A 'No boys aloud' Group?
    It makes me really sad because it's like they want me to choose between my happiness and there friendship.
    What would you do?
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    Im sorry if this was pointless but I needed to get it off my chest. If you guys have suggestions as to how I should correct this problem..please state them. I would appreciate them greatly.

  • Caitlyn
    17 years ago

    Maybe they need to open their eyes.. yes, they are your friends.. but there are some holes that only your boyfriend can fill.. that's why he completes you.. they shouldn't be mad, we all know that more than likely they are going to turn around and do the exact same thing.. talk to them! plan a girls night, when you do this, make sure that everyone turns off their cell phones, get a camera, pop in a cd that's about 3 years old.. and just have a good time.. it will maybe clear your mind, and maybe you'll get some answers.. hope it works out for you!

  • Crystal Gaze
    17 years ago

    Ya but they won't even talk to me... Like I start to walk up to them and they turn up there noses give a huff and walk away.

  • Crystal Gaze
    17 years ago

    No Idea...LIke I try to hang out with them..I even try to set those little girls night out things up but they never want too. It's like they don't want my friendship because I have a boyfriend...But perhaps they arn't my real friends..
    And I don't think they have feelings for jake because...they arn't at liking boys stage yet., Which is totally fine, but I don't see why they should hate me or be rude because I am.