I caught her tryin to cheat....

Yeah, i just broke up with my girlfriend last night because she lied to me about what she did on saturday. she told me she was with her sister at the mall then at the movies then at zaxbys. but really she was on a date with a guy that goes to another school, and she agreed to go on the actual date. first she only said that it was the mall. then it was just the mall and the movies. and finnaly it was the mall moveis, zaxbys and a ride home. wat makes it worse is that i found out through a bulletin she posted on myspace. so she posted it and i asked her what she did saturday(after i saw the bulletin) and she lied to me. and all the while she has been accusing me of cheating. do you think i should ever give her another cance or completly forget shec existes. ( i think i should go with the second choice)

She also told me that the reason she lied was b/c she thought i was gonna freak out if she told me she was gonna hang out wit one of her guy friends. but yet she knows i trust, well truested, her and im not a jelous type.

I really cant believe she did this to me. it hurts so much mainly b/c all her friends always kept telling her that they would see me out with girls and kissing them, when truely she si the only girl i hang out with. i dont wat to hate her but the more i think about it the more i despise of her.

Wow, that sounds really true. i guess it was for the better. it just sucks b/c were have been together for a year and a half.

Thanx for the advice, im always the one giving advice to others and no one really helps me. so it feels nice to talk to someone i dont know but still be at a level ground of understanding.

You gave me advice, so here's mine.. Don't completely get rid of her.. yes, she cheated, and yes, she lied... alot, but she still has feelings for you, i think, maybe.. wait to get her reeled in, and then... YANK IT OUT FROM UNDER HER!! :D cruel, yes, but maybe she'll learn a lesson!

I think it all depends on what she does to earn this second chance,if she is working for it and apologizing and just if you can tell she never ment to hurt you like that then yea give her a second chance but if you do make sure you let her know that after a second there is no third!

I have to say I agree with Britt. She isn't worth the time or effort, and certanily not the pain, just cut yourself off from her. And a nice guy like you, you'll find someone better in no time!! Good luck, and don't dwell on it to long, the less you think about her the better.

.:Danielle:.

I say give the girl a secound chance :)
your in love with here even though she cheated on you and she has feelings for you and she can learn by that mistake...
And oh from another post "Cheater always a cheater?" she can change belive me!

'mistake'
more like 'relationship ruiner'.
don't give her another chance, that's what she wants, and all it would do was give you the chance to open up and trust her again so she could hurt you, if she had that great feelings for you she obviously wouldn't have cheated on you.
x

I just wanted to say THANK YOU to all of you. you dont even know me and u decided to help, it truely means alot to me. just so you guys know i decided to be friends with her but not at all close. or at least not for after the summer. i do still want to be with her but i know its best that we dont. so for now we will be apart and later(much much much later) maybe we can be together again. it kinda sux b/c i really missed her and even tho i said i wouldnt i cried over her. but im already getting over it. and i feel like still being friends with her is helping me get over it. i just really want her to realize what she did to me. but for now i am single, single, and SINGLE. thanks for the advice.

That sucks it happened to me to except i actually saw him in person even though he didnt see me and it sucked just find a girl that wont lie or cheat and just push her out of ur life forever

Wow, that was very enlightening. i know what you mean about the whole her knowing wat she did to me. the thing is i am over her but im not over US. to me its two diff. things. so thats why its like that. i feel like she doesnt care about what she did to me. and yes she really did go out on a date, she admitted it to me. and i will enjoy the single life. thanx for the insperational words!!!!

Throw her in a dustbin.

HAHA` nice suggest person above me [:

Well I`m too lazi to read what others say`d, so if I`m just repeating someone -- Sorry I wasted you`r time . But dude`, so many of my boys have been in the same situation as you . My opinion and what i`ve seen works best ? TOSS HER . Don`t like, completely forget about her -- You need to remember chicks like her & stay the hell away from them . BUT don`t go thinking about how much it hurts . So it isn`t the easiest thing to do, but the more you think about it -- The harder it gets to let go . Girls like that don`t deserve second chances . I mean if she came out and told you the truth, I`d have say`d forgive her . But nuh uh` -- She had to go and lie . My best friend is going thru the same thing -- Only she didn`t cheat . She just DENiED THAT THEY WERE GOiNG OUT to her ex & lied to him about it . He wants to dump her, yet he won`t because he just can`t let her go . You` two are already seperated -- Keep it that way . It`ll take time to get over her , but you gotta` . Girls like that ... [I`ve met a ton . Sorry if I`m totally grouping them together but whatev`s] You give`em second chances & they`ll just take you for granted `nd dupe you all over again .
..__MiNDYY

Be done with her. She obviously didn't value the relationship.

It's up to you. If you love her and she regrets it and wants to be with you. Give her a second chance. I gave my boyfriend, fiance now a second chance after he cheated. And now we are happy and going on four years. But everything works out differently.

Well since reading all thies posts i have decided to forget her but we ares till kinda friends. i dont completely ignore her. and like many girls have suggested, i have been toyin with her head and making her jealous. i know she doesnt deserve a second chance, especially after she started goin out with thaT guy the day after we broke up! owell, im starting to realize that shes not, or ever was, worth my time.

( i have stopped the toying w/ her head b/c i dont feel like wasting my time)

I did after i realized that i was wasting my time

Oh ic... if she loves you then she would always and if she doesnot thenshe wont. its up to you for decide

I don't think you should give her another chance....but that is just me. I feel that a relationship has to have honesty, and she lied to you. And she said that she thought you'd get mad at her for going out with one of her guy friends, but it says ''she agreed to go on the actual date." I wouldn't give her another chance.