I need some help!

Well, here's the deal. My boyfriend keeps ditching me for a mutual female friend. He tells me he doesn't mean anything by it and that he doesn't like her. He gets upset with me for saying anything to him about it. He tells me I am selfish for wanting attention from him, like hugs and everything.... I don't know what to do anymore. Everynight I am crying myself to sleep, and I have almost cut my wrist with a sharp flathead screwdriver. He's tearing my heart in two. He tells me he loves me, but many times I wonder if it is true with the way he treats other female friends higher than his own girlfriend... All I really wanted was some advice....Should I stick with it and try to make things better? Or should I dump him to move on with my life? I'm messed up when I am with him and I'm messed up when I'm with out him, but with him I try hurting myself. What should I do?

i agree with cheryl u hould move on. askign 4 attention form ur own bf??? thts not how it goes when ur with somoen who truly loves u u wont have to ask them to b affectionate with u and he shouldnt b treating other gilrs beter than he does you. bein g in a realtionship ur suposed to feel loved and wnated not sad and unloved. u can find someone better who will give u all teh love and attention u deserve good luck

Bob-
My dad doesn't live with me, so he doesn't know about it. My stepdad doesn't seem to understand what the problem is. My older brother, he's 32, says that I am a wimp. I've had like two boyfriends. The current one has been since I was 14....
Everyone else-
Thank you for your help. Please keep it up. My relationship has it's hills. One day it sucks, the next day it's wonderful. Mostly it sucks tho. lol Keep posting! =D
~BF~

I think you should try to work it out with him, and if it doesn't help soon, dump him because you shouldn't hurt yourself over a guy.