Are We Going to Break Up?

Okay, a few nights ago I gave my phone number to my ex-boyfriends best friend because I never really see him anymore and just wanted to talk to him and catch up on things because I haven't talked to him in a few months now. Well.. when he called me, we ended up talking for 5 hours, until it was midnight here. Well, I didn't think that would happen nor did I think it was a problem because I have NO feelings for this guy whatsoever, he is just a friend. We haven't ever done anything even close to flirting, just talking. Well.... I told my boyfriend about it and he got really upset with me. Started accusing me of cheating and flirting and saying I had been bad and I shouldn't have done it and I just started crying my eyes out on the phone. I just am terrified of him breaking up with me and I was just so scared that he was going to do it.. he said he wasn't, but he was still pissed off and it seemed like everything else I said were just making him even worse.
Do you all think he's going to break up with me, even though he says he isn't going to? And.... do you think it was wrong for me to talk to my friend for that long on the phone? I didn't think it was a problem until my boyfriend started telling me about how terrible it was. So, please help me!! I desperately need it =(

I dont know if he will, but have you said, "well if i was flirting and cheating, why would i tell you about it!!" if it was all innoscent then he should see that, tell your mate who you was talking too to tell him it was nothing. maybe hell listen to him

x

*hugs you* No I don't really think that if he really cares for you he'll break up with you ^.^ Just give him a little time to cool down =) And no, it wasn't wrong to spend time talking to your friend ^.^ He spends time talking to his friends and I'm sure that one or two of them are girls so whats the difference? Don't worry and just make sure he knows that you didn't do anything wrong and if you ask me it just sounds like your dealing with a case of jealousy =P You'll go through it in every relationship =P
Hang in there and I hope things work out good =)
Rhea

Thanks sweeties, I greatly appercaite it!
I told him plently of times who he was but I think the main thing he was mad about was because of how long I was on the phone with him. He says that he doesn't stay up on the phone all night with girls and I shouldn't be doing it with guys either.. *sighs* He says it's okay though and to just ignore him. It's kinda difficult to though when you think your lover is going to break up with you. It sucks!

~Loveless Nights~

Hes Jealous. I'd be the same if my girlfriend did that. The way he sees it, he thinks you're preferring to talk to the other person than you are to him. Its especially not helping that the person is male, if it was a female friend he wouldn't have cared. If it happens again just don't tell him, you can talk to all the friends you like, but he'll always think any guy talking to you is a threat. =]

[hint: hes most likely scared to lose you by you cheating on him and falling in love with someone else]

:) Hope i helped,

Chris x

I agree with Chris on some aspects on this.
Your boyfriend is wrong to tell you who you can't talk to but i can also see why he's upset
If i did that, Marcus would be upset because he'd get worried and lads don't deal with emotions (jks, lol) It's cos they love us, lol
Try to out yourself in his place and just let him know he's always your number one
A little reassurance goes a long way
Good luck =)
*Gem*

The boy shouldn`t be accusing you, but I can totally understand what he`s thinking . Most of my friends are guys -- and considering that I haven`t hooked up with anyone for nearly a year, my guy friends always come to me for problems . If another guy & you talk for that long, you`r boy`s gonna feel threatened, but he shouldn`t get all that upset -.-' & YOU shouldn`t worry too much . A real boyiee` wouldn`t break up with you just cuhs` of that . Just keep lettin` him know that he`s special to you & he`ll be reassured (: Boys are weird that way, but it`s what makes`em so ah`dorable (& sometimes really irritating -.-) .
..__MiNDYY