What do you do when your friend is willing to kill herself?

My best friend told me that her boyfriend William who is a soldier told her that he would take a bullet for her, then she got real quiet and the next thing she said to me was that he asked her what she'd do if he died tomorrow, she replied that she'd kill herself and his response was "I'll see you in Heaven" and she even told me that she would really do it and that she'd kill herself by OD, I didn't say anything and now I'm terrified that she might actually follow through if he does die. I feel that it's noble of her to say that, but at the same time I'm thinking about telling the school social worker that she's thinking of suicide. I know she'd get mad at me if I told the social worker, but I can't deal with this on my own. Please help me.

It's the kind of thing that people in love tell their spouses if their spouses are in the armed forces. if her b/f does actually go to war and die, then I would start worrying. but it's probably just talk.

I think tell somebody who can help if it really starts to worry you. She could be just saying it, but I doubt it. If she really loves him, she just might. Tell her that it would be a greater expression of love to keep on living.
Because, really, it is.
I hope she is ok,
Kelsea

She is a part of my pack, and I fear one of our rituals is what is making her want to follow through with it. The oath we take states that any promise written or spoken is binding and must be followed through, but I never meant for it to go that far. I didn't think that my beta would ever actually promise to kill herself to a guy she's never met! She thinks she loves him, but she's living in a fantasy world. I only want her to see the light and either stop thinking about if he dies and focus on the fact that he's alive now. and I thought my cutting was bad. I'm in over my head and she's only scaring me now, she keeps asking which drug has the highest death rate due to overdose. I have a feeling she is way too serious for me to not do something. I want to tie her up somewhere in a nice padded room and keep her as safe as possible, but I can't do that. I've never been this stressed or this confused in my entire life!

Have you confronted her? If not, you should sit down somewhere where there are no distractions, and talk to her. Make sure she knows how you've been feeling, worrying, and how you'll feel if she does die. Talk about her family and friends, and how they'll feel, and see what she says. If she blows it off, or says something to the effect of 'sorry, but I love him that much', call the social worker. If she says she was just kidding, watch her carefully, and I'd still let someone know, like a parent or something. The third possibility is that she'll open up and tell you everything, how she feels, the whole bit. In that case, just keep talking, and you'll probably solve the problem. The big thing is to let her know you're concerned and you care about her.