Hope
19 years ago
Hello Kylie. I have to agree with Baby Face, your man seems like he really does love you. Furthermore, it is understandable why it hurts him when you don’t believe his love for you because he would feel like he is in a courtroom and on trial; always confessing the truth over and over again, but more importantly, his true love doesn't believe in him, the one whose word counts the most. I can imagine how hard it would be for him but at least he is still with you. I'm not trying to make you feel guilty because it is also conceivable why you are so skeptical about mistrusting guys as you've 'been used and it is not fun.' But maybe it is time for you to change. Maybe it is time to take a chance. You can't change the past. Moreover the past does not dictate the future. Not all guys that you will meet in life are cheaters. |
Amy
19 years ago
hey- i get what your saying! me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year, and we we first starting going out...i was just like you! i have a huge trust thing w/ guys i've been hurt (*by my now boyfriends cousin*srry thats probably confusing!) but anways i had a hugge trust thing w/ my boyfriend that he really didnt love me an that he would just say it..b/c i said it.. an after a while, when i really got to know him like REALLY know him.. i know he loves me ..but i always have those lil scared moments where i dont think he loves me.. but from what it sounds like.. your boyfriend loves you!!! trust him when he says he does!!! .. i hope i could be better help to you... but really.. do trust him!! .. |