Ex boyfriend.. on drugs.. depressed.. help?

So i just (was FORECED) to break up with my boyfriend. my father made me, literally., i had to or he'd call the cops(he was 18, im 15).

and now J(the guy) is fricken depressed like crazy. he wears sunglasses in school. 1. b/c he cries, and 2. b/c now hes doing drugs again. i cant talk to him anymore. at all. (not allowed) and i feel like sh.t if i am near him. i dotnwant him to do some stupid stuff. i dont want him to do drugs. but i cant deal with talkijng to him anymore,. .. can any please give me advice???

I know this.

we had planned not to have sex until after i was 17. and he never tried too. and he knows the truth of what happened. but i feel so guilty.. its starting ot get to me.. he was so attached.. and now i feel like -why did i have to do this to him-

and i know hes weak.. but i feeel so bad. b/c i seemed to have helped him. i just want to know what to do to help him now..

and i guess my mother was right -if hes this screwed up over a few weeks.. he probably would be stalking you if you broke up with him after a few months..'

but i still feel so bad. b/c i care about him.. and though hes older i feel like responsible.. ack.

Well im 15 my ex was 19 so same prob. he also did the same thing when i was forced to break up with him. he literally tried to kill himself and was an alcoholic. he had me messed up for a while bc of it. he shouldnt be that dependant on you youre only 15.. i also had to realize that. he has to learn to make himself happy and if he doesnt learn to do that then hell never truly be happy. my ex had to go to the fifth floor before he got better. and now that he is i can talk to him. you really shouldnt be feeling guilty over what hes doing its his choice and you arent going to stop him.

i hope this helps hun...

Hum.. i just feel so bad. thanks all of you.. hes out of school next month, well he'll prolly just leave before that.. =/

i dont want anything to happen to him.. =[

Don't get mad at me for saying this. (So don't even try to post of what i said this is ONLY for the topic starter)

What is the problem when you guys are only seeing eachother. Nothing sexual (sex) is going on until your over a certian age?

I dont know. i dont get it. my father said if he wanted to he could get him(arrested) for something as simple as kissing me.

and i hope no one gets upset, oure simply asking.

OK this is the thing i had to do some research for speach on this topic and really your dad can not have him arrested unless you are haveing sexual relations with this boy and your father knows that for a fact and well other than that if i were you i would write him a note telling him your situation and how you feel

I disagree with bob. And yet I don't. Yes you have a point. She is 15 and he is 18, there is a big age difference there. But then again we find love in all different places.

"think that her father had no right to do that"

^Had no right? Oh come on. The man helped bring her into this world. She's lucky her father stopped her from seeing this guy if he, like Bob said is 'that weak', and is doing drugs again. Her father may not have known that much, but he did the right thing.

My friend had the same prob, cept she wa'nt froced she did, and we don't no about the situation yet... but maybe u sould just stay away