Does one ever truly get over their first LOVE?

  • BrokenREALiTy
    17 years ago

    You get over them .
    You (You`r heart, whatever) just don`t let them go .
    ..__MiNDYY

  • xxSnow Angelxx
    17 years ago

    It took me six months to get over my first love and i'm now enaged to my TRUE love, there is a big difference.
    ^^I agree with Gem=)
    It's 100%true

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    "Well you will never stop loving the first person you fall in love with they will always have a place in your heart but that doesnt mean you cant fall in love with someone else though"

    Load of bull...

    My first love (and i loved him to bits) screwed me over and hurt me physically and mentally..
    He has no place in my heart anymore.
    And in fifty years time when me and Marcus are married with kids and grandkids, i won't even remember his name!
    Come back to me in forty years and tell me the name of your first love. Cos i guarantee none of you will remember! You'll only remember your true love.
    *sigh*

  • Karl Wild GG23
    17 years ago

    Most of you are way to young to even know what real love is yet, you all think you love the first person you date. Love doesn't have a time period, you can't say oh umm we've been dating two months now I love him/her. Gem is 100% right, I do although disagree with the won't remember there name part, we'll always remember our first love, but we won't always love them. A first love is usually a learning experience they rarely workout, and if they do it takes a lot of work to make it right. In 50 years when somebody says who was your first love, you'll tell them who it was, and then you'll look to the person beside you and say "but he/she is my true love".

  • hiddenpain112605
    17 years ago

    Well i went out with my first love for two years n its been a year n i am with someone else n i am 3 months preg n i am still in love with him! so i would say NO

  • Jenn
    17 years ago

    I was with my first love for 4 years and i still think about it a lot. i never get to see him but hes friends with my cuz so i hear a lot of him. im with someone new now and im happy so i just try to let it go.

  • ABake
    17 years ago

    My first love and I were together for 5 months. [Tear] I loved him to death but we just had to let go. It took me a year and a half to get over him. And it's really hard, because we go to the same church and our families are really close. He still hasn't gone out with anyone else and even though I am with someone else I think about him all the time. But do I love him still? No. Do I care about him? Yes. Is he one of my good friends? Yes. But I'm happy now.

  • Espoirfailed
    17 years ago

    I think there's always a little place for them in your heart and you never get over them.

  • BREEawNUHH
    17 years ago

    I fell in love for the first time when I was 13 years old. I'm 16 now, and I still love him. In fact, in 13 days, we'll have been broken up one year. I'm not in love with him anymore, and I've gotten over him for the most part. Yes, I still love him, and I always will. Love isn't scary. Losing it is.

  • lish
    17 years ago

    Love, i dont think people will get over their first love, but its like your first kiss you'll remember it forever. it will be a great memory.