Love and Hate

Can you love and hate someone at the same time? or do you think you can love them so much you hate them?

Love and hate are the two closest emotions. They both require a lot of time, energy and passion and I believe if you care so much that you hate them you certainly love them.

Love doesn't exist without hate. Hate doesn't exist without love. Funny, isn't it?

Love and Hate can both trigger each other.

For a start, people have a drive to be independent of others' influence. When you love someone, you are emphatically not independent of their influence. This causes a degree of resentment and even hatred.

Second, if you love someone, you're likely to hate anything that threatens them or causes them harm. Sometimes, habits or traits they possess can do this. As a result, you'll hate parts of them.

I dont think its possible to hate someone so much that you love them. Or love them so much that you hate them. I think that either you love someone or you hate them (cept for the people that you just like). Basically, Love and Hate are similar, but so are all emotions. But they are not similar enough to feel them at the same time about the same person.

I think that if you Love someone it comes with hate, but if you trully hate someone no love, it really depends on the situation.

You can't love and hate at the same time.

When you love someone you can't hate them. you can only hate their actions - in my opinion.

Marco is correct. Hate's a strong word, you see. Say if you were a mother of a rapist. You could never hate them; but you'd hate what they've done and become.
But I guess thats a tad bit different to the actual point of this topic. Oh well.

My first love ... i hated to love.

I have not freaking idea. Me and my boyfriend broke up on Friday.. I still wanna be friends. I apologize for what I did he said f you. I called him up yesterday asked him if he still loved me and he says yes but he hates me and doesnt wanna be friends. i dont know... what to do...

TPAM Give him time and space :)

Yes you can love and hate, they're related.

Its not that you hate them you most likely love them but something there doing is making you upset think about it this way hate is a strong word

I dont really think u can love & hate someone at the same time!

like my ex for an example

I love him so fricken much but i wanna hate him so flippin bad for hurting me all the time..

^^^^ hunny i know i am in the same situation and i cant hate him no matter what he does because i love him soooooooo much

^^^I know. it sux. i love him so much even tho he hurt me extremely bad. when i see him, break down and cry. its hard being in the same room with him...u kno? i got a new boyfriend now but i dont want him to think that im not over my ex. but i am. its just when my eyes meet his..all the memories and things we had & shared come back to me and i think about how he hurt me.

Awww Amanda that is so totally true..
i think you can love someone so much that sometimes when they don't return that love it makes you want to hate them..or if they just hurt you and treat you really badly...it's like you love them, as a person but you hate their actions and what they do. i've felt this way..but i think that in many cases love wins out..i mean when you think about it really yoyu love them more than hate them.

You can`t love someone you hate . Ever stop to think that it`s how they`re acting that`s making you "hate" them ? I thought I hated my ex at one point, and that I strongly liked him (I thought it was love at the time) too . But I realized that it was only how he was treating me that I hated -- Not him personally .
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Well now hes all ive been thinking about and i dont kno what to do

Yes!! I have loved some1 soo much i felt like i hate them... and sometimes you could get scared that they might actually love you and you love them but u are scared u will never let go and get hurt.... that happened to me...