Im probably paranoid

  • The Tears I bleed
    17 years ago

    Me and my bf fight; usually over little things. But lately the fights have been so frequent that the fights are getting to me. I usually try and stop them by not saying anything or just tryin to change the subject but he knows how to push my buttons. I know everyone fights but now I don’t know what to do. He doesn’t seem too worried and it probably is just stress and tension getting between us or whatever. But does anyone have any advice?

  • Rach
    17 years ago

    Have time apart, to just let things chill out. If its stress.. talk about whats stressing you both

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    Not a day goes by when me and Marcus don't have a little set to.
    It's normal especially if you spend every day together (and night =)
    It's a way of letting off steam at somone because you know they're still going to love you
    Although in your case it seems to be getting to you
    When you start arguing, just close your mouth and leave him to it.
    Then in the middle of it, reach up and kiss him
    I do that when i'm getting bored of it and it works a treat =)
    Good luck
    *Gem*

  • Unseen Exposure
    17 years ago

    Spend less time together. It might help. But sometimes, fighting is good. It shows that you both still have your head on straight ... and that you are both you're own person. Sometimes couples forget that they're two separate beings and conform to whatever the other one thinks and believes, and its not healthy.

  • Pondering Thoughts Of Nothing
    17 years ago

    Take a break from eachother and find a guy who will love you for who you really are :)
    I was in a relationship like this where me and my boyfriend seemed to be fighting all the time, but once we decided to stop seeing eachother and begin dating other people, I found the man of m dreams and we've bn together ever since :)

  • Amanda Frost
    17 years ago

    ^^^^ i agree with this person ^^^^

    try taking some time from one another

  • 19Rusty
    17 years ago

    Easiest thing to do is just give time it's way.

  • Silently He walks
    17 years ago

    Well Jennifer... I am not sure how long you two have been seeing one another because you didn't state that information. I figure if you were together for a while and you like this boy alot little fights should not worry you. You should try talking it out with him. Explain how you dislike argueing over these little things. If it's stress my best advice would be either take a break or talk it over. If your man really is into you he will understand and take the time to talk to you in order to work out the situation.

  • BrokenREALiTy
    17 years ago

    Fighting is healthy -- It means you two still know that you two are one, but seperate still if you get what I`m saying . If it`s starting to get to you, take some time apart and chill . You gotta let him know how you`r feeling tho .

    ..__MiNDYY

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    "Take a break from eachother and find a guy who will love you for who you really are :)"

    Who said he didn't love her! Marcus loves me yet we have lots of little fights, it actually bothers him more than me sometimes but we're engaged and don't love each other any less.

    To the poster, don't just dump this guy! That's the cowards way out if you love each other. Talk to him, just plant a kiss on him when he starts arguing to shut him up or just walk away and leave him to it. There are so many ways to get past this, leaving isn't one of them if you truly care for him.
    *Gem*

  • The Tears I bleed
    17 years ago

    Lol i wont dump him, i loves him too much!! but thanks for all the advice, it really helps