Weight gain and Familey issues

  • mcrmysbobertthe spanis pengien
    17 years ago

    I get stressed out and I eat when im stressed. my Cusins are always whineing they are spoiled brats and my aunt treats them like angels.YeT saying there smarter than me and better than me (there 10 and5!)I feel like I can never do enough to please my dad and I feel depressed and rejected I feel like im loseing it.It has all added to my alresady depression low self esteem(really LOW SELF ESSTEEM)and anxitey problums on top of all that my cloths are tightning and I keep on gaining weight im chubby I went from 115 to 132 .And I cant figure out if I should give my mom a second chance to lo ve me or stay away so shewould treat me like crap.But it may be better than my dad hitting me again .IM CONFUSED HELP!!!!

  • The Sky is Falling
    17 years ago

    I don't have a weight issue. Unless you say being 119 pounds and being 6'2 is a problem. Though I hate my weight it is better then what it used to be before I left my father's house. Which was 99 pounds. Yes I know horrible. Me and my father didn't get along and I never ate. Believe me now all I do now is eat ^^

  • ~me~
    17 years ago

    That is soooo thin
    i just looked it up on BMI an you BMI is 15.3
    but bet you look lush

  • mcrmysbobertthe spanis pengien
    17 years ago

    Im 5'9 so to me it is a problum I want to fix.

  • elmozbabiigurl7
    17 years ago

    HmMm.. yeah i have a big problem wit food i tend to eat till i get sick tehn throw it up.. then eat more as much as i eat tho i seem to lose it an gain more i should go on strike i so dont wanna end up eating my life away n on the jerry springer show wit those insane couples tru story

  • xJoinMeInDeathx
    17 years ago

    Well i see where your comming from mostly on the weight thing. I have a medium to small stucture but my weight is begining to increase, Iam 5'9ish as well, weighing in at around 140 on a good day. Pretty shitty, its been a rather bad year, stressed out, gained weight droped all my hobbies. So , maybe if you can, find somthing your interested in, Writing, Music, or what have you, and when things get tough get away from it all by doing somthing you love for a while, blow everything off.. even though surpressing emotions isnt healthy very much.. it could help maybe?

  • ana maria
    17 years ago

    Okay i'm like about 5'5 and i am around 145
    i tend to eat whenever when iam mad sad happy
    but they only way i feel better is by throwing it all up
    yea i know thats gross but it makes me feel better

  • Woe
    17 years ago

    Uhhh.. whats wrong with me??
    im 5'5 and i only weigh 105
    ---- some would say its great.
    my whole family and my bf and his family and everyone else i see tells me i need to eat..
    I DO FUCKING EAT!
    god... i just eat and then i feel like an ass for eating (b/c i can eat anything & not gain weight) so then i feel guilty and throw it up... therefore i just keep losing weight...
    uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuugggghhhh!

  • STEVE
    17 years ago

    Ok this is real easy stop eating bread put same food on cracker biscuits
    Drink water only
    Simple exercise ride a bike
    22 kilos in 4 months its that easy
    by the way slow down on potato

  • xfAdInGxaWaYx
    17 years ago

    ^Haha amen to that. I'm 5"1 and weigh about 70kg (have no idea what it is in pounds) but it's heavy and I would kill to weigh less. But what the hell its me and I ain't gonna change 'coz I can't be bothered exercising. Take your BMI it tells you more than those stupid height to weight ratio charts. If you try to address your weight now with your depression it will only make things worse I know from experience. Sort out your family issues first and then if your weight is so important to you address that last.