Is it bad to hide it behind ur parents back?

Ok.. theres this guy that I was in love with deeply, and then I ran away from home and basically stayed with him the whole time I was gone and then I ended up goin to my sisters house and he wrote me an email that said that he wanted to break up and then when I finally went home I fought my parents to let me call him bcuz he also wrote me an email that said he still loved me and that he was goin crazy without me and so I begged my parents to let me call him and they wouldnt let me bcuz they dont like him, so they wouldnt let me and 2 weeks later I told them I hated him so now they think I hate him when really I talk to him all the time and I still hang out with him when I go hang out with jessie and my parents think hate him is it bad to hide it behind their backs?

Of course! Wait til your 18 then do what you want

It's not right, no, but sometimes you just can't help it, you know? It's night fair to them but sometimes they just are too protective and over-reactive and you just can't help but go behinds their backs about something every once in awhile. It's your life and you should make your own decisions, but some parents just think they're right about everything.

~Loveless Nights~

And some parents are. Right about everything that is or at least certain love situations. I mean, think about it they must have a reason right. Ask them what it is and maybe you'll see it through their eyes and know that they might be right.

If you love him and your parents dont understand then i dont think it is my relationship with my boy for almost 2 years has been hidden from my mom she judges him and im not going to let her get in the way of my love he might be the one im not going to let him go cause my mom doesnt like him for herself im with him not her as long as your not doing anything stupid its not wrong

I agree...
i mean while love is great,
at this age the only love people know is puppy love.
its the best thing you can get when you are a kid....
maybe your parents are right....
this guy might not be right for you.
try to get to know other boys and make new friends.

Well i dunno....do you feel guilty about hiding it?

I don't it really good to let your parents see when you are dating under age but, at the age of 18 upwards think it's the right to let your parents know of the one you are in love with.To have time to study him as of one thier subjects and also to be your backbone in your relationship since they have pass through that state.

Hidding things is not a good idea. I would hide things from my parents all the time but never a relationship. Simple things like a cell phone, a beeper things of that nature but that was things that were not as serious and I knew if they found out they would not mind much because it was my hard earned money paying for. These devices would not get me into trouble. However in your situation it is totally different... You may think you like this boy but you are losing trust in the people you love over a guy. Imagine they find out. How would they feel? or even better what would happen if something happened while you were with him hidding hanging out would be a terrible burden. Plus you said he wrote letters saying how he wanted to break up and then not long after said he wanted to stay together. It seems he's unstable... I think it's a bad idea however this is your situation to work out. My advice is tell the truth it's better they know then have to find out. In case things do get serious... much luck -chris

Go for it you deserve happiness its not good to hide it so stress how much he means tyo you to your parents and as long as your happy that should be whats important to them.