Whats Wrong With Him Or Is It Just Me?

Hey.
ive been with my boyfriend for ..9 months and before we got together we was bestmates for jsut over a year and half...at the start we was great! he always hugged me told me he loved me sat cuddleing me ...but now...hes different ..he dont cuddle me i have to cuddle him...he never tells me he loves me first .. 2 days ago he lied to me and told me he was at home when infact he was at his sisters ..he rang me from his sisters saying he was at home and he was goin to bed...(( this was just after he'd left my hosue)) i rang him about 5 minutes after to tell him i was goin bed too and his mum answered and told me he haddnt even been home..thats how i knew he lied.. the next day i didnt see him cause again he lied and said he was coming to see me but he went to his sisters.. and today i havent seen him cause hes gone out with his dad...i love him so much ! weve been throguh alot together ..but it just takes little things he does to upset me when i got off the phone i just cried....but whenever i try to talk to him about if he still wants to me with me ..cause it feels like he dont want to be anymore...he just says shutup being stupid...and when i say do you love me he says course i do yah twat....i dont know what to do is it just me ? hes such an honest person i dont know why hes started to lie ...help !

Yeh agree critt. ask

Try talking to him

Ive asked him.. and hes said that he didnt tell me because i would go mardy ! and i said to him why would i go mardy about you going to your sisters where your neices live?and he just went quiet then said i dont know... ive tried talking to him ...just today on the phone i asked him why hes been so distant and i told him it feels like he dont wanna be together anymore and he said aww dont start again ...its all in my head...but my friends agree with me ,,,im a fair person i dont try to make out that im the angel and hes the baddy i tell both sides even if im in the wrong and they still think hes being out of charactor ...but he said its all in my head im so confused i feel insane

I was With him about 20 minutes ago. .and we was talking and i kept asking him why hes being like this... last last night he came round ...and he was so nice ! hugging me we was play fighting everything ,....it was luvly...but today he said its because his grandad died and i told him his grandad wouldnt want him being like this...i was with him when his mum told him he had died...i stayed with him ...his mum moved in with his nonnar...and he was at his house on his own...i moved win with him cause he wonted me to be there...and everything was fine....but now hes changed again he said im gonna go what i want when i want to...and i said do you still want to be with me and he said i dont care... i asked him if he would be boved if we split up and he said yes he said he still loves me but hes shut me out completely now...he said this is how am going to be,,if you dont like it then you know what to do ,..and i was in tears i couldnt stop crying he had to go for a driving lesson so thats why he went...but i dont know what to do ...my mums seen my arm where i self harmed and she asked about it and i just told her i cut it ...and she just said you can pack it in ....my mum said i shouldnt be with him...but i love him so much i know i shouldnt be with him but i cant leave him hes all thats keeping me going ...i dont know what to do please help

I know it sounds bad but i say you should leave him. you deserve soooooo much more better than that!! i kind of had the same thing going on like my ex i could never see myself with out him but we ended up spliting up like 2 months ago and i am doing pretty good. i though i would die if i wasnt with him and i wouldnt know what to do, like he was my life or something, but i moved on (kind of) lol. it might take time but you would be able to move on i promise.