Is it worth it?...

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    Ok well i wanted to know what you guys think about this...
    if someone you are totally in love with causes you a lot of pain..is it still worth loving him and chasing after him??
    the thing is i do love this guy but i know he doesn't, he likes one of my good friends who in turn likes someone else, it all so complicated. anyways about this guy, i love him..i really do. but he hurts me by pretending..we're good friends and sometimes he goes a little over board with it and it makes me feel as if he actually likes me..but i know he doesn't (i have asked) he says he only wants to be friends..but he won't just leave me alone..he insisits on seeing me and wanting to talk to me..still i know he doesn't. but he toys with me..and it hurts. i mean loving him really hurts even though at times he can make me really happy. i want to know if it's worth staying in love with him or if i should just totally ignore him and try to get over him. i need an honest opinion.. :S

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    That's what everyone tells me..and i do think you guys are right..but for some reason i can't seem to just leave and never look back. i tried for a while but then i started talking to him again. ugh..i really need to get over him...

  • Unseen Exposure
    17 years ago

    The pain is NOT worth it.
    I repeat - The pain is NOT worth it.

    You need to get out of the relationship before it causes too much damage.

  • isabel
    17 years ago

    I agree with unseen exposure...
    the pain is really not worth it...
    letting someone toy with you can lead to several problems in the future, including depression...
    (i know what i'm talking about, i have 1...trust me, you don't want it...)
    it's like this: he toys with you, until you get so much pain that you cannot cope with it...and that's not worth the hottest guy in the planet
    you need to stand up for yourself...you are a nice person and there is "plenty of fish in the sea", as someone said to me a while ago...