Who Is Out Of Line?

So my best friend is dating this girl, i kinda know, but not really, anywho my best friend and i have quite the past, he was in love with me, and she knows all about what went down. so recently, especially tonight, she flipped her shit on him for going out for a coffee with me, asking him to choose either her or myself, when he said he would choose me, she got even more mad and verbally attacked him. i confronted her saying that i know she has had a problem with me for a while, and i would really appreciate it if she just let me know as oppose to yelling at him.
am i in the wrong for spending so much time with him? or is she?

She's wrong sorry. I've been in this possition before.It was was so hard...The thing was is that I done the wrong thing and lost 1 my friend and 2 her boyfriend who was my friend too. -.-
xx Roxy

She`s totally out of line . I`ve dealt with girls like that -- Gave`em a dang good slap across the face . She needs to back the heck off . If she knows you`r guys` history she gotta wait it out . No shite he`d choose you -- Y`all are good friends . She needs to get over that . Guys don`t ditch they girl for they mates . Forcing him to choose isn`t right cuhs` he isn`t even supposed to have to choose . That girl should shut her mouth . For her birthday, give her a tennis ball for me . Tell her I said, "Here`s one ball . Now go grow another ." (Think deep . If you still don`t get it , message me :P)
..__MiNDYY

Haha. i love it!!!

yeah i think shes in the wrong too, its just shes one of those girls that manages to manipulate your words so you look like the bad person, which has me second guessing myself.
but thanks for the advice! helps me out!

:)

Oh come on guys, I kind of feel bad for the girl. If she knows you two have a history, then it's understandable that she's upset about you spending a lot of time together. Maybe she overreacted, but I'm sure most girls would.

There's no reason why you shouldn't be able to spend time with your friend, but try to understand her point of view. Don't be so quick to assume she's totally wrong.

Hey sweety
yeah she TOTALLY is in the wrong....
ive lost my best lad mate to his gf now and we dnt talk... thing is it good that she has bn able to turn him against you..
she is one of them girls that are insecure and cant understand how a girl and i boy can be so close and only be mates...

my mate gf was only ok with me if i werent single... if i were single she coursed so much trouble an your lucky she didnt win him.. i mean she won my best friend because he has choosen her over me..

but dont doubt yourself love..

xhx

So last night they ended up breaking up.......

they got into a huge fight over this situation, and i feel really bad. he says he is happy but i know she was crazy about him so i feel terrible.!

Have you ever liked your friend?

Yes...right now actually...but no one knows that...

I say she is wrong i have also been in this situation and i lost him and her the difference is that i love him.... well that is a different story and i will post that in a blog saying update on life

Now you admitted to liking him! So you both are in the wrong. Women are just underhanded, back-stabbing...things. :p So you both are vile; it's all good.

And yes, I am including myself in that stereotype.

Jaime, you can`t feel bad for a chick that`s trying to tear two best friends apart . That isn`t overreacting . SHE`s A GiRL . We`re all backstabbing beezy`s at one point in our live`s . If she`s the manipulative type, she don`t deserve to be pitied .

BTW`; glad you like my idea ;] I still have to find someone to do that to myself ...

She's just another backstabbing friend.... who was in the wrong. You have nothing to feel bad about.

It's normal for her to be worried, because your friend was in love with you, and you apparently have a thing for him. She's just worried that old feelings are going to come back into play. She was out of line in the sense that she shouldn't have flipped out, but a lot of teenage girls are overdramatic.

I just think if she explained things from her side, it would be a little more understandable.

Mmm, if you like the guy, she has/had every right in the world to be paranoid. I'd be jealous and angry if my boyfriend was hanging around some girl that liked him ... it's invitation for disaster. Regardless of your history with him, when getting involved in a relationship, there are certain sacrifices, tiny ones. He shouldnt have to cut you out of his life, but things can't necessarily stay the same either. I think you were both sort of out of line. And, whether you voice the fact that you like him or not, girls aren't blind, they can sense it ... so you might think she didn't know, but I'm sure she did, which is why she was so angry/paranoid/jealous/worried. Yes? Yes.

Hope all works out. :-)