I am so confused...plz help...

  • isabel
    17 years ago

    The problem is this:
    i had an crush on a guy for about 2 years, he found out, we became friends, nothing to worry about...
    this year he stopped talking to me, didn't say a word for about 2 months and after i asked what was wrong, he said that:
    we were different
    i had problems (people pick on me since i was 7 and other problems, i was always crying)
    his friends didn't like me
    he ended up saying that we could still remain friends and i was really confused about what he wanted...
    now we sometimes say a couple of words to each other on messenger or when his friends aren't looking, but it hurts me really much only talk to him because of what he did...
    but i can't tell him that, because he is too nervous and freaks out with the smallest thing, i can't even tell him why i cry, because he get's too much pressure and can't take it...he also can't stand that people are angry with him, it get's him really upset...
    i also don't want to tell him to go for a walk and get some personality, because i still like him and he can be really sweet when he wants, too...

    what can i do?

    please tell me something, i need some advice...

  • Monica AKA Mika
    17 years ago

    I think that you should just tell him exactly how you feel and tell him that if he wants to be friends then he has to suck it up and tell his friends and if his friends get mad about you and him being friends then they arent really his friends n he doesnt need them!

  • isabel
    17 years ago

    My problem is the guy is too nervous for me to say anything...he's too afraid to talk about feelings...i don't want him to freak out...

    though it actually seems my only chance...
    oh my, i'm not really sure...

  • DOLLFACE
    17 years ago

    Okay i have an idea you should take things with him in small steps go out and hang out somewhere just you two will be talk to him or at least try then keep doing this untill he can open up sooner or later youll be either his best friend or his girl try it

  • isabel
    17 years ago

    I like the idea =) =)
    thank you
    =D

  • DOLLFACE
    17 years ago

    Sometimes it helps to talk things out before you charge into something

  • isabel
    17 years ago

    Yes...=) =)

  • Amanda Frost
    17 years ago

    I agree with the other person.

    take small steps with him. hang out, have fun, and soon he'll see how fun and great it is to be around you. and maybe it will grow into something more =]