Update on life

  • MEGZ is wondering what to do about life
    17 years ago

    Okay update on my life..... and i need help......
    As you know me and tyler arent together anymore...... for those of you who dont know me and tyler dated on and off for a year and a half but the last 6 months we have been engaged i know i am only 15 and he is 18 but i love him and so age doesnt matter......right..... well to clue yall in on why me and tyler are still yet to get back together well he found out he has a 1 and 1/2 year old daughter..... he found out the day before mothers day...... he want to try and make a life for his child but i need yalls help.....
    see i found out yesterday that while me and tyler were together he went to talk to amanda ( the babies moma even though he didnt know it was his baby) and evidnetly somethings happened and he screwed her while we were together and she might be pregnant again....... i dont know how i feel about all of this i mean for some reason i am not mad i think it is because i love him so much and i can never stay mad at him he says he is sorry adn that if she isnt pregnant he wants to work things about between us but what should i do...... should i go back to him......he says he cant trust me that he thinks i am in love with his friends... my aunt says he says that because he doesnt believe that i lovw him...... but does he love me..... I mean he cheated on me with her.... even though he says it was a mistake and shouldnt have happened it did..... what do i do???????

  • MEGZ is wondering what to do about life
    17 years ago

    Thanx for your help and yeah you are right it is eaier said then done i have tried to cut all strings but it hurts so much not to be with him..... the child doesnt really bother me but him having another with her does because the fact is that we were together when it happened...... I dont think there is actual proof that the baby is his...... she says so and he believes her.... she says that the only reason she told him a year and half after she had the baby was because she wanted to tell him in person but when you add all the facts up that means that she told him the child was his after he slept with her this recent time.... so maybe the baby isnt his mmyabe she just said that....... i dont know i am so confused how can i love him so much when he has done this to me it makes no sense......

  • Bre
    17 years ago

    Hun you are 15 years old this guy seriously needs to get his life in line and you shouldn't have to deal with him and his almost two children it is complicated and you are sooo young he has chosen his life you will date many before you can decide you love anyone and if he is saying he doubts your love look at what he has done really he sounds like a jerk

  • BrokenREALiTy
    17 years ago

    HE doesn`t trust YOU ? Psh`, tell the guy not to make me laugh . He`s cheated on you & yet you love him so much, you`r blinded . They say that those in love see the world through rose-colored glasses . Honey, you`r glasses are major thick . The guy`s a jerk . I understand the making room for the daughter, but doing the hanky panky ? HEL-LO . The guy obviously doesn`t put you first -- So why are you putting him up there ?
    ..__MiNDYY