Should I Tell Her?

  • skynerraw
    17 years ago

    Ok...one of my best friends has this boyfriend that she is really serious with, and in my 7th and 4th hours he flirts with this girl he always used to like, I mean really flirts..idk, and I don't want to mess this up for her and have them break up, I'm afraid that she might think that I'm trying to break them up, because I used to like him but...I feel guilty not telling her....idk if it's serious, him flirting and all but idk...maybe I'm just over-protected of her lol....idk should I?
    (I really hope she doesn't find this!)

  • Marc Ortiz
    17 years ago

    Tell your friend whats happening and tell her you're doing it because you're a true friend XD

  • Just Lucy
    17 years ago

    Awww, tell her, you so have to, to be a true friend, its your responsibility

  • Alyce
    17 years ago

    Just ell her you are not trying to break them up but let her knnow he is flirting but maybe he is just close friends with this girl and there is nothing going on maybe you are just jumping to conclusion because it is your best friend and you would go through hell and back to protect her but you should inform her and if she doesnt believe you and says your just trying to break them up have a picture to prove that yoour not lieing!!!

  • DOLLFACE
    17 years ago

    You need to tell the guy that he needs to stop flirting because ovbiously he is in a relationship if he doesnt stop you need to tell you friend because if he cares about her he will stop

  • skynerraw
    17 years ago

    Well this is sort of hard because all three: My bestie, the guy, and the girl he's flirting with: are all of my friends.. I don't want any of them to be mad at me...

  • Molly
    17 years ago

    Hunh? he doesn't flirt w/ her! u r being over protective...lol

  • Fluffy
    17 years ago

    Well if you don't tell her then you're not a real friend, are you? You shouldn't have to ask us. She's your friend.

  • skynerraw
    17 years ago

    I know but.....I want to tell her, but I'm afraid I'm being overprotective...I don't know if it's serious or not...

  • Bloomed Rose
    17 years ago

    I think you should tell her. explain the situation to her. if shes a good friend, she'll understand what ur trying to tell her. ur not being over protective, just whatever you do, say it once, don't be rude about it, and your job is done, what she decides to do, well, it's her decision. but it could be effected by what you tell her.

  • Lost Angel
    17 years ago

    I think that you should tell her because she deserves to know nobody deserves anyone like that i know from personal experiences...Just Tell Her!!

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    Tell her.

  • XsuicideXsexXscandalX
    17 years ago

    Tell her how u feel

  • jessicahernandez
    17 years ago

    Definately if you let her get to involved and then he hurts her it would be alot harder to handle than you bringing it up maybe have some other people tell her to and let her know you lover her and do not want her hurt.

  • Molly
    17 years ago

    ^ to add on 2 my other post, i guess he does, but I must have not noticed, but, then maybe I did and was just zoning out! lol

  • 19Rusty
    17 years ago

    Stick with Nike's theme, Just Do It.

  • JodiieBaybeh
    17 years ago

    You should definatly tell her shes your friend ...and your not over protective over her at all your just doin what any normal friend should do ...and i know it wont seem great comin from you because you use to like him but shewont thank you if she inds out you had witnesed him flirting with another girl just tell her its for the best