is it worse to looz a family member young or get to know them an

I think it's hard either way, but I think that when you know them, it's harder to let go.

because I've had to deal with both (3 month old sister when i was 3 years old, and then the older people who have died.) Its so much worse to lose someone you never got to get to know because you'll always wonder if things would be different if they hadn't died. I have more problems dealing with my sister's death than my grandmother's

i agree. I mean, ive lost my nanny last xmas. and i also lost my Dad wen i was onli 3 months old. And personally, the 1 tht hurts more is my Dad. I never got to know him, or spend time with him, and that hurts more. because atleast with my nanny i knew things about her. I know nothing about my dad. tht rly hurts sumtimes.