PLEASE! help me!!

I am head over heels for this guy.
ive like him for over 8 months now and i cant say nething coz he has a gf
ive never felt this strongly for anyone and we tell each other everything, message nearly evry day and are so close.
Before he was with his current girlfreidn we were getting the same messages. He said he loved me aswell.
What do i do?
I was way to shy to make a move when he wasnt with hre because im self-concious and my sister lost her bf (he died in a car accident) when she was my age also. So im too scared to commit.
Do i try to forget about him?
Do I have a shoulder ready for if and when they do break up?
Please I don't wan to ruin anyones freidnship or relationships! But I'm in tears nearly every night because i feel so stongly and it kills me to see him with her!
Please help!
Love always Jo
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"If he wanted to be with you, he'd break up with you."

^You mean 'her', right? "he'd brake up with her." Lol. Yeah. That's my advice too. Damn you Britto for beating me to it :|.

Jo right?!? look im 17 and ive been standing in your shoes we were bestfriends for like 6 years hung out constantly hed come to the place were i work bymyself on weekends and hed sit with me for my entire 9 hour shift and we talked about everything he had told me more than anyone else we both dealt with our mothers having cancer at the same time and we helped each other through it. He had told me he liked me and i told him the same and niether of us would make a move for fear of i dunno what. He constantly gave of signals that he was interested but see he (jesse) had a gf. i wasn't going to make a move cause i didnt want to hurt a relationship but he kept dissing him self and i hoped shed tell him that he was better than he thought but she didnt so one night on msn we were talking and i asked him if i told him something would he hold it against me he said ofcourse not so i spilled mu guts about EVERYTHING how great i thight he was how much i wanted to be the girl in his arms and it ended TERRIBLY he doesn't talk to me much anymore and things are awkward not to say that that is how itll end for you but he was so confused b/c i hadn't told him earlier when he made the move and now he had a g/f. now 4 months later his g/f is now his ex and she broke his heart about a month ago and even though we weren't talking much i was still there to comfort him and i can happily say that we a slowly working on fixing our friendship but my advice to you be honest i know it may hurt but you shouldn tlive with regrets and he deserves the chance to figure out how he feels. please let me know how things go either way and good luck. ~Carrie~<3XXXX

I think you should be freinds with him but dont message him every day i mean what if you were goin out with him and you found out that he was messaging another girl everyday..you know you would be upset! And yea you can be the shoulder IF they break up but dont make any moves untill a couple months after they break up and just be sure to stay out of his relationship with herlike dont give him advice or anything cuz then he may think that you were trying to break them up or what ever so just take it day by day and see what happens....Good Luck...Thankz for the advice.

Thakn you everyone!
id like to clarify few things. Im way too shy to make a move and we message ach other because we are best fridns, she is one of my close friends to. I helped get them togethr and only want him to be happy, so i guess that if they break up il be there for him but meanehile il sit out hte wait coz im happiest with him!!
if its meant to be itl happen eventually!!!!!!!!!!!
thank you!
love jo
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You are welcome