A friend... never again

My guy and are trying to get back but there is so much we have to work on... but i need to ask anyone and everyone this one question... when we were talking one time, he told me that i lost the chance of ever being a friend to him even before we started going out because i just told my friends that i had my first kiss.... and apparently ever since then ive never been his friend. and what really hurt is that he told me that i can never ever again be a friend. he always wants us to be together and be more, but he said that will be it... my question is, isn't the person that you love and wanna marry and be with forever not only your love and soulmate, but also your best friend?.... if i can never be a friend again, how are we suppose to work again?... i just need opinions on this one please

What the hell is up with this dude ? Okay, the whole "always wants you to be together and be more" is totally sweet, but "that will be it" ? The boy has issues . Your love is supposed to be you`r best friend too . There are some times where you just gotta see`im as you`r best friend, not you`r lover . Talk to him . Ask him why . Tell him how you feel about it .
Cuhs` personally, I`d kick his arse . But I`m violent & take my frustration out through violence (:
But you just gotta talk it out .
Cuhs` in my opinion, that ain`t right .
..__MiNDYY

Occasionally, I'm a proponent of nonviolent resolution of conflicts.

This isn't one of those times.

Mindy's suggestion seems right on to me.

I am also agree