Friend wit benefits??!

HmMm ive known this guy for over a year now the whole skool year gone bye n we've been gettin closer he has gf im single n for sum reason i feel guilty like i know his gf we were like on the same bus to skool we use to talk all da time then we stopped n change buses.He tell me things he wouldnt dare tell her but he wont leave her for all the money in the world.But when it comes to i he is my world i cant let him no that tho cuz it gonna mess the whole benefit thing i know he loves me but it dont wanna be 2nd best nor 2 choice what do i do??

Leave them alone, duh! He wouldn't leave her for the world so let him be it's his life.

I think the whole idea of "friends with benefits" is deplorable. It's kinda sick and personally, I think it's wrong. He has a girlfriend and you seem friendly with her, so why not have some respect and lay off and be happy simply being friends?

Also, you need to have respect for yourself. If I'm not mistaken, "friends with benefits" are friends who kiss and makeout and have sex. You are not this boy's girlfriend or wife, so you have no business touching him. Most guys have "friends with benefits" because their girlfriends won't put out for them - they use "friends with benefits" as free hookers.

What would happen if you were to get pregnant with his baby? How do you think she'd feel if she found out you were doing her boyfriend? Better yet, put yourself in her shoes and think of how you'd feel if you found out your boyfriend had "friends with benefits".

This boy tells you stuff he doesn't share with his girlfriend... so what? It doesn't mean he likes you like that. Guys tell eachother plenty of things they wouldn't dare say infront of their girlfriends or wives - it's how guys are.

Again, my opinion is the same as the other girl's - leave him alone. Have respect for yourself and have respect for him and his girlfriend. If he doesn't like it, he can fuck off, and you should tell his girlfriend he's being a cheat. She has a right to know that her man is screwing around behind her back.

Ok ive been done this road before and the only difference was i was the guy that was in 2nd place.
it does not feel good does it? You probaly feel like utter crap everytime u look at her? take the gut feeling b/c if u dont and u end up going out with him for some reason, the other chick will spread crap about you.... (sorry girls u just tend to do that to other girls for reasons i just dont know.) and not just that he is going behind his gf back to hang out with you now of what is going to stop him form doing that to uu when and IF u go out.
sorry for the what the hell u goin through though.
sincerely,
falling tears