I NEED HELP?!?!?!?!?!?!?

Well, it sounds like you need to find a true friend. someone that isn't going to stab you in the back like that. talk to your friend, tell her how you feel.

It sounds to me like this girl isn't really a friend at all and you need to start looking at why you even bother calling her one! Its sad hun I know but your probably better off without this girl and her destructive behaviour - just forget about her make yourself some new friends who treat you and your family with the love and respect real friends do!
Good luck! Eirisa