Some one help

  • jhino
    17 years ago

    Can u give me some advice ??

    i a typical loner...
    i cant seem to trust other people?

    iam wrong?
    or are they?

    coz ive been fooled many times..

    so hard it.. it eats your heart out=(

  • dollwithafrown
    17 years ago

    Well, I wouldn't say other people are wrong because you can't trust them.

    Try to make friends. Just start talking to people, you don't have to trust them, at least not right away.

    You may have been fooled many times, but you can't let that block your trust, otherwise you'll never see what it's like to actually trust somebody again.

  • jhino
    17 years ago

    I cant stand the fake smiles, s2pid laughs,

    i feel like nobody knows my worth.. =(
    even though i know im so lucky in terms of wordly things? at least compared to some...

    oh... this is the first time some one shared some opinion on me^_^

    tnx...

  • xBxRxOxKxExNx
    17 years ago

    Hey! its not there fault and it's not yours either, you've probably been hurt a lot in the past and so it's natural to build a wall and stop letting people in but from experience it's not the best thing you can do! you have to take the risks and trust people, no-ones saying to jump into the deep end but gradually learn, if you keep trying to protect yourself by blocking everyone out your just going to feel worse as you probably do otherwise you wouldn't have posted this message; just learn that life is about taking risks and if we get hurt then its something we'll learn along the way, just don't give up and try your best to trust people, even if its just the odd few because they'll help you through, being alone isn't a nice feeling, you'd rather risk being hurt and have friends to fall back on and talk to then stay on the outside and feel you have no-one.. but that's just my point of view.. holler if you need anything! X

  • jhino
    17 years ago

    Thanks yu ol^_^

    i wish ol the person would listen to me as much as all of you does!!

    the thing is..
    ive been so much alone just myself...
    for the last 10 years ive been always like this...
    i must say i have good grades..
    then im currently on our school's basketball team..

    so i thought its okay if i kept going like this..

    but eventually..
    loneliness comes always to haunt ryt?

    but you were ryt... is shouldnt have posted if i were trying to block people from my world..

    thanks everyone...

  • Tracy D Rollings
    17 years ago

    People are always gonna hurt you, if they get the chance to. I have been hurt so many times, I'm becoming immune to it. Pain is like part of my life, but there are some decent people out here in the world, that are very nice to know. Since I joined this site , I didn't trust anyone either. But now I have met new friends, I have learned to open up. My hopes are that you will also, so take care and if you ever want to talk, I'm around.

  • StonedGooberz
    17 years ago

    Like my freind uptop, ur gonna get hurt thats part of life, but hey their is good people u just got to know where to look....thanx tracy ^_^

  • jhino
    17 years ago

    Thanks men...
    appreciate the help...
    hope i will have a tym when i can open up all the hardships i endured for the last 10 years..