How do I bring it up?

  • DaddysLittlePrincess
    17 years ago

    My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months now and I love him with all my heart. I really think he is the one for me and he has told me that he feels the same. He's amazing and he's really been there for me especially through this hard time. I lost my dad about 3 months ago and he has been absolutely amazing and he's my rock. Well anyways thats not what I wanted to talk about. I made a promise that I wasn't going to have sex until I knew that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him becasue I don't want to give that away to just anyone. I want him to be special and worth it. My boyfriend is a virgin, too and he told me that it'll happen when it happens and that he would never do anything that I didn't want to. He said that he was leaving it completly up to me and that he'd be ready when I was. Well I think I'm ready, but I don't know how to bring it up. I want to talk about it before anything happens, but I just don't know how to bring it up in the first place.

    Help is appreciated. Thanks!

    -DaddysLittlePrincess

  • Han84
    17 years ago

    Sweety its great that he has said tht too you.. because not many lads will wait... but there odd few like my bf did!!!! i made him wait 5 months!!!
    erm well he is right it will happen when it happens..... and ull find the right moment to talk about it!! it tricky situation

    gd luck

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    Just sit down and say "Hey, I think I'm ready for us to take things to the next level."

    And if you can't say that without feeling uncomfortable, then you probably aren't ready and should hold off a little while..

  • Fluffy
    17 years ago

    Damn. If my dead passed away 3 months ago, I most probably wouldn't have sex revolving in my mind...

    But you know. That's just me.