Can this....

Can this really be happening??

ok well here's the story. it'll lead up to what happens now.

about two years ago a whole bunch of drama happened in my family. My dad threatened to kill my mom so he got locked up...that the basic....

NOW i'm in a relationship and i've never been more happy.

i'm 16 he's 18.

at first my dad wasnt tring to meet him. then was. now just wants to meet him to yell at him.

so now i dont want them meeting.

this is the messed up part
he told me last night if he see's my boyfriend around me he'll call the cops on my boyfriend since we called the cops on my dad TWO YEARS ago. He's just doing this as "payback" adn doesnt wanna see me happy...

and i'm scared cuz i dont know what to do now.
any advice??

This is exactly what my dad said

"since you guys can call the police on me then i can call them on him." then something else but i dont feel like typing it....

i mean at first he was like ok lets meet then rememered all that and got mad

Whos that

Who has custody of you? I am assuming that your mother does. If this is the case then get written permission from your mother that you are allowed to be with your current boyfriend and keep it on you (in your purse or whatever) at all times.

IF you father does call the cops when he sees you two together in public then you have verification and your boyfriend will not get into trouble as long as you are not having a sexual relationship.

If it was me not only would I have that letter from my custodian parent, but I would cut all ties with my father.

You do not need a sperm donor in your life who is full of hatred and revenge. You need a daddy who will try to understand your feelings and support you despite the mistakes you make. That does not mean for them to agree with you, but everyone needs support from their parents at all times.

Hope this helps a little hun.

--Sher

Thanx so much...the thing is my parents are still together. BUT my dad is NEVER around. so yea he drives truck. and he thought i was 14 or something. so thats why i'm so lost and confused. i know i'm only 16 but i know what love is. and this is it. and i can't loose him i just cant

Then your mother needs to step up and talk to your father.

She is the adult, not you and she should step in and play the role. Be responsible!

If two parents are together then they must be on the same page when raising a child. Otherwise, there is a lot of tension and cinfusion created that is not needed.

Talk to your mom and have her speak to your dad on your behalf.

Just to be safe I would still get that letter and carry it on me at all times.

--Sher

Lol thanx. i really wish it could happen like that. but my dad wont let my mom speak. she doesnt like argueing with him so she just leaves things be. i mean she tried. but then stopped cuz she doesnt wanna argue. but we'll prove them wrong. we can do this and we'll make it. i just hope nothing goes bad.....

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