Is there a way ...

Is there a way to view private messages that you've SENT, not just ones you've received? And, if there isn't, is there a way that it could be arranged so that we can?

:-)

I'd also enjoy a method of *trash* cause there are always those messages that you want to delete but you fear you'll need in the future... and those that you delete and find you could have used them.... If you know what I mean.

And the exact time -with site clock- could be good if apperaring within the date of a message

It's so annoying when you send a message to someone and they reply four days later and you have no idea what they're talking about.

^^ Agreed, it would be really helpful to be able to organize messages as well...like a trash and than name folders of stuff that you may need to reread instead of searching through them all or whatever and a sent one..