I need some help girls!!!!!

Okay, I broke up with my boyfriend bout two weeks ago. I told him I needed to be single for awhile so I could think bout things. Recently I went on my annual band trip and there is a freshman who I was siting with on the bus ride there and back. We hung out alot on the trip and we both flirted. I like him alot....thing is I am graduating Sunday and he is still in high school. Plus what would my ex think if he heard I was dating someone else? Grr....I don't know what to do. follow my heart and ask this freshie out, or just stay friends with him for awhile and see how things go. HELP PLZ!!!!!

I thought age didn't matter....hmm...I usually don't go for younger men, but I really like this guy. Maybe we should stay friends for now.

Yea...see I usually date my age or older (1 or 2 yrs older) so when i developed feelings for this younger guy, it confused me. I will be 18 in June and I think he is 15 going on 16.

Yes...but he lives near me. Plus I am living at home while I go to college and prob working part time.

I know..I think I am feeling these feeling cause I miss having someone in my life even though I wanted to break up with my ex. I just never thought it would be someone younger than me. Thanks a bunch :)

I think Britt made some good points.

The maturity level will drive you crazy. And if you end up going to college, and say it's somewhere out of the area of where he lives/goes to school, you won't see him very often. And he's a Freshman in high school, so he's bound to try and get with someone else while you're gone.

But as far as your ex goes, who cares? If you've moved on, he needs to get over it.

What Britt said.

Thanks guys......Britt does make good points.

Ok well age is nothing but a number hon so do what your heart says...and if your ex does find out about be careful cuz he might wan to get revenge to try to get you real jealous. But the question is are you the jealous type???

Toss coin.. heads go
tails not^_^

Ummm it has nly been 2 weeks if my boyfriend did that to me it would say to me that you didnt really care that much..... but you are goimg to do what u want so do u but do right

I don't think dating a much younger guy is a good idea - not to mention its kinda illegal. you guys are at such different stages in your lives - relationships are about sharing things, and you couldn't. plus the chances him cheating are really good - i mean guys cheat all the time when they see their girlfriend at school everyday! of course, the decision is up to you, but i'm w. britt.

When i was 13, i dated a guy who was 19.
we clicked perfectly.
it was amazing.
and we were on the same level.
the only reason it didnt last is because i went to the psych ward and during that time, his phone got shut off and he got kicked out of his house, and although i havent talked to him in over a year, i heard he's doing good and im happy, even though i do miss him a bit. but i personally date older people and hang out with older people because im very mature for my age, my boyfriend now is only 2 years older than me and sometimes i think he's a little young-minded, but i love him anyways. age for me has never been a factor, but then again i never had sex with these older guys [well i mean with one guy, but he was legal.] so it wasnt illegal.
follow your heart.
seriously.
dont let anyone tell you what to feel or how to act on it.
although britt, you did make some very good points.

Im really starting to not like this stephen guy.

Personally i agree with Britt too young at this stage of life and who cares what your ex says its true hes your ex unless you trully still have feelings for him.

M sure ur EX will understand..if u go with dis new guy...

well let's hope he will..

Ago dont matter, i mean right now i'm gonna be 14 in like 3 days, and theres this guy i have dont things with, but not dating, and my mom doesnt want me date him b cuz hes 17 and hes a senior and i am a freshman, i mean idk, so if it feels right, then go for it

Age is nothing if you can handle it