I need some help here.

I love two people, to make this story simpler, their names are: Ally and Cati. I love Ally more than Cati, but I have a better chance with Cati, and I could tell Cati whenever I wanted to. To tell Ally I'd have to get a friend to tell her, cuz I'm homeschooled. So I told Cati, but she said she needs some time. And school is almost out, so my friend won't be able to tell Ally so I could at least talk to Ally and be truthful and open over the summer. Like I said, I can talk to Cati whenever I want. Should I tell Cati that I'm not in love with her now, and then tell Ally? So if I ask Ally and she says no, then word will get to Cati and she'll think that she was a last resort or something. I sound like I think I could just go out with whoever I want. But I don't think that. I just wanna know what I should do?

You do have a point, im 14. i care about ally more. and why did you say i should leave them alone. i really seem like a butthole right now dont i? and yes i LOVE Ally. no one could understand this... no one ever does.

I didnt even think of that. holy snap. i guess i should just wait it through. I AM too young for all this stuff anyway. love and like are very different. Cati is just a really good friend i guess.

Process of "elimination" sounds like im killing someone! XP hha

Well when this week ends I'm S.O.L. school it out and i have no connection to ally. -sigh- need to think about this. I wander how i could talk to ally... I want to spend my life with Ally, and yet there is no way to talk to her. ughh! what to do...

(5 minutes later) sorry i was laughing! well if i call her to talk, then she'll get the point right off the bat, that I have these feelings. and besides when i call people they don't really talk, they just sit there and watch tv, listen to music, talk to people around wherever they at, etc, etc.

...........you have a point... I dont know?

what an epiphany..... theres is nothing wrong with that. well other than she might.... i cant think of the word..... reject me? no that sounds too harsh.... plain and simple: say she doesnt. thats it

-sigh- good point... I aughta find a way to tell her myself though, cuz its just like childish to get your friend to tell people that you love them.

That would seem really, really, freaky wouldnt it? love at first sight is strange then..

We did a little bit back when i was still in school there. we sat beside each other in science.

Heh heh... cute. : ) "good point... Oh, maybe... no, you're right." Way to be reasonible, kid. And keep listening to Britt!

Can I just ask why you wouldn't be able to see Ally? And, just because you can't see someone doesn't mean you have to stop "loving" them.

AND TELL HER. Don't keep your feelings in a box, or you'll regret it. You don't want to have to say to yourself, "If only I had ..." because that would suck, a lot. Tell her how you feel. Even tell her about Cati. Be open, be honest. It works.