need advice

listen, i used to be in the same boat as you. i only cared what other people thought of me. i did things to please people. everytime i was about to make a decision for myself, i would bring other people into the equation. i used to do things to impress people. i wouldnt do things to updset people. i was really hiding, yet i didnt know it. and you know what i did to get over it? nothing. they did it to me. the people who i trusted robbed me, jumped me, beat me up, and degraded me. others left me behind, stopped caring, and just gave up on me. i always wondered... "why did i care so much for what they thought of me? when its so easy for them to just ignor me?" well now... i only look out for myself. if someone says something i confront them. if someone pushes me, i push them back. i learned that in this life, even if you're in a relationship, you still must look out for youself. i hope this helps. if you want to talk hun, just private message me.

i am having the same probs
but when i go to make them right
i get more suspicious or at least thats wat ppl say
i tryed to stop the rumors with one gurl and all she said was

welcome to high school
you'll have to get tougher babe