Wondering if you're in the wrong relationship?

  • Allexielle
    17 years ago

    Have you ever felt that you love someone with all your heart, and yet your mind, family and friends tell you that you've made the wrong choice and blinded by love?

    If you have, do you write about it to make you feel better or to reflect if you made the right choice?

  • fvalconbridge
    17 years ago

    I have, everyone told me i was wrong, but i dint learn for myself until 6 monthes later when i found out she was pregnant. And im a girl. That says everything really doest it.

  • Winterdamsel
    17 years ago

    I have! I just prayed to God to guide me to what decision I should make!

  • Tricky Daze
    17 years ago

    Yes...Just broke up...Nobody supported me because he was 10 years older than me..and so far away
    He is a good guy really,and we dated for 2 years and you know when nobody supports you really feel like doing something wrong
    So I just gave up struggling and submitted my soul to loneliness

  • Monica AKA Mika
    17 years ago

    I have been in that situation but i am no longer. i got out as soon as my friends helped me open my eyes..i am now happy!

  • Beauty In The Breaking
    17 years ago

    Hhmmm....Not really. I've never not wanted to be with my bf and all my family really likes him 1. Because they can all see that I'm happier now then I ever have been and that he takes great care of me and 2. Because he's one of the best men I've ever met =)
    Now with my last guy...*sigh*...most people liked him until I left him and thats when I found out that he'd been lying to me the whole time and that he was a MAJOR jerk and not what I thought he was =P Now everyones telling me to stop talking to him and not to hang around him anymore lols They're probably right though because I've come to see that it really wouldn't have taken much to push him to far =( He's got a temper problem and is taking the tests to get his black belt in August =P Not a good combo in the least lols
    Rhea

  • stefanie
    17 years ago

    Yea. im feeling this and going through this rite now. and yea i do write about it. most of the time i write to vent, get it all out before i break down even more. and i sometimes do write about whether i made the right choice...

  • Lyla
    17 years ago

    Yes. My friends do not like my boyfriend because we have has a rocky past. But we have talked, worked things out and things are a million times better. But none of that matters to anyone around me

  • BrokenREALiTy
    17 years ago

    They`re concerned . You have to respect that, just don`t LiSTEN to them . So many people I know come from broken families, and they`re always coming to me crying about how their significant other`s family keeps trying to tear them apart and filling that person`s brain with crap .
    It`s like, you can understand their concern, but they need to butt the hell out cuhs` it`s not THEiR FLiPPiN` RELATiONSHiP .
    Just don`t stress out too much about it unless they do something EXTREME . Like that one chick whose parents kiddnapped her before her wedding or something . -.-
    ..__MiNDYY

  • Ashlie
    17 years ago

    Yea i express it through writing and just try to let it go but sometimes it doesnt work