What are your views on getting married..

What are your opinions on marriage in the ages of ..17-20 ..

Hmmmmm well it will work if you both are independet and can handel theirself

I don't think it's a good idea. You still have a lot of life to live ahead of you and you need to have independance until you're at least in your early 20's. like maybe 23 or something. Just wait for a while.

I think 17 is just asking for trouble... but maybe 20 would work. It depends on how long you've known the person, and how mature the relationship is.

Yes just make it happen

All the people saying it doesn't work... how do you know? Have you experienced it? Right then.

I got engaged two months before my 18th birthday, i'm bearly 19 now and the wedding is planned for 2009 with all his family behind us.
So yes. It can work when it's real love.
To all the cynics... twenty years from now i will take the liberty of laughing in your face and telling you to shove it =)
Peace out
*Gem*

I think that its up to you if you think it could work. i personally dont think you should het married before your eighteen, atleast wait until your out in the real worl. my friend gregs 17 and his gf's 18 and they've been engaged for over a year but there waiting to be legal. i think that if you know what your doing then you should.

I think that you should at least wait until you are 18 if youre a girl and 21 if youre a guy....but the ideal age to me would be like 23-24.

"It hasn't happened yet, but if it happens - congrats to you, although you should realize not everyone's as lucky as you are to find somebody like that at such a young age. My mom got married when she was 18. She said, "to get married that young you have to be either really stupid or really lucky". :)"

I'll take the compliment part of that cos it's happening all right =)
Me and his three sisters went wedding shoe shopping yesterday =)
16th July 2009 roll on!

I dont want to sound like a kid jumping into this without thinking it through but yes its true i still have alot to lern about life...were not getting married for a couple of years yet...ive still got college..and if we arnt together for whatever reason when the time comes to be making wedding plans then i would of made the right choice about waiting...and gem...congrats!! hope it all works out for you

&& Amanda and britt xx=)

I hope that you can, but I'll lay 5 to one odds you aren't with the same person in the year 2029....now how's that for being cynical...the odds are heavily in my favor...I'm at an 80% chance of winning that bet....bet your first born.....is your connfidence shaken yet, if not it might just work, or you'll be like so many others, hanging on because what would I ever do on my own........Lmao...some of this is joking and some of it is serious, I'll let you decide

^^^Bob,
I just fell head over heals in love with you!!!!!!!
You have got to be the most romantic man I have ever met in my entire life. Your cynical A** just makes my loins quiver with desire and my boobs tingle with titillating attraction. Dont ever change your fascinating sardonic views of love and romance, or I will die a very slow painful torturing death!!!!

Dreaming of you with the most sarcastic love my body could possibly muster

Kisses
Tonya

I think that you shouldn't get married betten the ages of 17-20 because you are so young. Also during that time most are getting ready to go to college or are in college and marriage would just be to hard. There are other reasons but I rather not say them.

Well it depends on the situation im gettin married n iam 17 but i am also 3 months preg.

There's nothing wrong with marriage, I don't think. Of course, there are people who cannot commit themselves to one person and therefore find it easier to drift because they've not tied the knot and there are no papers to sign. But you know, that's just my perspective. :)
I'd say the best time to get married is 24/25. I don't know why. Just seems right.

Meh.

Dont get married so young

On my point of view, it is bad.. u get.. so many prob's... fights...children... drama... social life gone~ etc

The way i see it is, if two people really really love each other and say they are 18, 19, 20, they can wait till they are both financially, emotionally, spiritually ready as well. it's not like the love is just going to die away... and if it does, it wasn't meant to be in the first place.

I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years and i'm 20. I want to marry this man so badly, but neither of us are in the position to do that just yet. but we are both happy with each other and willing to wait till we are both set up financially and spiritually, (the spiritual part is for me!) If you love someone, really love someone, it's not going to die away if you don't get married right away... just builds up your love for one another.

Yes i agree ^^^^^

I'm 16 turning 17 nex yr... this u can get married! As long as it's ok with your parents. i don't mind the ages 17-20 getting married. it's better than commiting immorality before marriage right? so u might as well just get married yenno. and i am not jus saying fo the sex.. but it's because u love each other oh so much. lol. yeah as long as u're getting married with both your parents' consent is fine! lol. so what if u two still young... what is the right time to get married then? u can still be immature if u get married at 25 rite? so there reallly isn't a rule to what age you should get married. so yeah i'm all up fer it. shoots i mite even get married nex yr! haha nah nah jus jokes... imma take ma GED nex yr... den get a real job n live life.. help family n all..

Trust me...u are definately too young for marriage at that age...love or no love

Well, from what i have seen, i dont know if it will work. it all depends on the people, how long they've been toghether, where they are in their lives. etc.

EX: my parents got married at 19 and 20. and they're still together.. BUT their relaitonship sucks and my mom might be leaving. so hmm. its all confusing.

but i have seen people who got married at 17 still be togehter and be very happy after 50 years.. so who knows.

i personally plan on getting married when i find someone i LOVE, and when i am done with college. so i may get married at 25, 28, or 30.

i dont know!

but thinking of it makes me smile., cause i'm thinking of the guy im with.. =]

AHHHH! i've never felt this way before.. =x