How do you?

I have a friend who is having a bit of a problem and i'm running out of ideas for how to help him, so i thought i would see what you guys think.

My friend has a massive crush on a girl, he is totally submitten by her. She seems to like him quite a lot as well.

He wants to know the best way to "woo" her.
my friend has a huge fear of rejection so just "getting in there" won't help!

How would you lot go about getting the person that you like?

x

I agree, except, he should maybe write her a note telling her how he feels and hope that she feels the same way about him. He could easily like her in a way that she will honestly like back.

"totally submitten by her." Haha! That's a marvelously accurate way to put it.

Anyway, if he's the same age as you, don't let him write a note. If he's mature about this he won't need an "if you like me, check this box" situation. The first suggestion, for having him find out the things she's interested in, is a good one. He doesn't even need some extravagent, romantic set-up to "woo" her. He just needs to spend time with her, learn about her, be nice to her and let her see his genuine affection. This sort of casual interaction will also probably benefit him, because his shy self will get some confidence, without having to put everything out on the line right away.