Should I go back out with him?

Me and my b/f of 9 months broke up yesterday (Well actually I broke up with him) He asked me if he could help take care of his friends kid because her b/f just left her. (her kid is about 1). I said he could. Then he took her to meet me and she told em that he really wanted to help her but also date both of us. I dumped him because he wouldn't choose betweent he two of us when I asked him to. I called him up earlier today and begged for him back because he appologised to me for like half an hour over the phone. He said he's not having anything to do with the other girl anymore because he really made up his mind and wants to be with me, then he sad he needs some time to figure things out with himself but he said that we could still be really good friends because he still loves me. I know we probibly will eventually fo back out and stuff, but I don't want to wait for him because I love him to death. Am I being stupid wanting him back or what?

Of corse not read mine its exactly like y0urs take him back if y0u really l0ve him!

I'm going to wait for him...if he really loves me then he'll come back to me...But no matter what I know we're going to stay friends.

Hey it worked for me it could work for you

I agree, just follow your heart and you will be fine.

Wait a week or two. Then ask him again. If he's unwavered. Wait a day or two more. Ask again. Unwavered? Go with it.

Just do what your heart tells you, and think it through hard. So you realaly want him back or not.

No way. You can do better. He's no good.

I saw him yesterday for a while and he told me that he wanted to stay friends with me forever, just that he wanted some time to not date anyone and then he may pretty well want me back forever. I was going to give him some time and ask him in like a few months to go back with me...but when I called him today to ask him something it said that his phone is temporarily out of service. He told me yesterday that he wanted to hang out Friday, but now I don't know if he can even get a hold of me to call me before Friday. I just don't know what to do. I still love him and yesterday he told me that he still loves me too, I'm just afraid that I'll never be able to talk to him again.

The needing time to think about it is like a total ... He`s basically waving white in your face, honey` . If he needs time, then you should wait too . It isn`t wrong or stupid to want him back, but you need to think not only with your heart, but with your mind too .

..__MiNDYY